best friend?

Question

ur best friend acts like she likes u but behind ur back she talks bad about you.wat do i do?/say to her

Answer 1

Be honest with her. Let her know that you feel she is talking behind your back and that it bothers you. Maybe she doesn't realize what she's doing. If she really is your best friend, you should be open with her. However, be careful and observant in feeling that way. If you're open with her and she makes fun of it with others, you know that she isn't a friend. If that is the case, be careful in what you say around her, and look for a different friend. If you have to deal with her on a day-to-day basis, still be friendly (don't openly avoid her), but don't rely on friendship from her. If you don't have to deal with her, just get another friend. Easier said than done, I know. But it's the best thing to do if that is the case.

Answer 2

She is not your friend. I don't care how much she proclaims she is...A friend wouldn't talk about you behind your back but to your face. That is what a true friend is. You pull her to the side maybe even pick a place to eat and discuss the facts....If someone told you that she was talking about you don't go by hearsay. Go by facts or if you absolutely know confront her and just tell her how you feel and based on what she says if she acts a fool be the bigger person and just walk away. You be the mature. Keep yourself together ( your hair, nails, clothes neat, and smile)....negativity and mess is out..it is 2007. Bigger, better, and positivity is in!

Answer 3

Omg she is not ur bestfriend if she talks bad about YOU and acts all innocent and nice when being with only you. Its just wrong, U cant trust this kinda person and make her ur bestfriend when u know she cant be trusted after all she is two faced right?

So erm i think u shud talk to her about how u feel about this & do what is necessary, maybe even break off being bestfriends with her if she wont change her behaviour. She isnt worthy of being ur bestmate if she acts like this with you.

Answer 4

If she was any kind of friend at all she wouldn't do this. But, maybe you should talk to her and ask her about it, [nicely, don't cause any more drama than there already is]. Whatever you do don't go talking behind hers just because you're mad. Don't worry though everyone has talked about somebody behind their back before, and i know that it really does hurt, but don't let it get you down.

Answer 5

Do you know for sure she is talking behind your back? Just stop talking to her, go find some new friends. She is not your friend if she is talking behind your back.

Answer 6

Did you call her your best friend? Trust me, if she was your friend, she would never talk about you behind your back. Friends are supposed to be there for eachother, and she should be stopping rumors about you not spreading them. If you do want to remain friends with her, I would suggest being careful about what you tell her.

Answer 7

I feel like I have the same problem.
I think you should ask some of her friends to tell you what she says about you. If they are bad things, talk to some one that you trust. Try talking to your friend also. Work things out. Good Luck!

Answer 8

You need to tell her that if she's truly your friend/best friend she'll stop talking bad about you right now. If she doesn't stop, she's not worth it. Someone out there will be a true friend. You don't need to worry if your so called friend is talking bad about you if you just end it right now.

Answer 9

Just tell her that if she has something to say to you or about you she should do it to your face not behind your back....then not be her friend anymore if she dont quit

Answer 10

Everyone is two-faced at one point or another, just watch what u say to her....or completely stop talking to her, but that is the harsh way to go....