My current college roommate and I have been friends for over 4 years now. We have always gotten along great until recently. Her boyfriend has been bothering me a lot lately and he wont stop when both her and I tell him to quit. My roommate and I had a big talk on the fact that I cant stand her bf and I worry that it made her mad at me. I have really tried to just deal with her boyfriend and all the crap he does. I honestly cannot stand him and feel miserable every time he is around. I think this has driven me away from my roommate and I'm honestly looking for new people to hang out with. Any suggestions on how I should deal with this?? I have already talked to her about it but I dont think he will stop acting the way he does.
2007-02-10 13:56:49 · 7 answers · asked by that one girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just ignore her for the time being and start hanging out with other people....eventually she would want to talk to you see whats wrong why you have changed on her.......then be straight with her
2007-02-10 14:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by fox mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are getting a little carried away here. Why would she be an asshole for standing on her boyfriend's side? I have very good friends, but if they hated my girlfriend and there was no way they could be in peace I'd choose my girlfriend over any friend any day of the week. You either just have to put up with her boyfriend or find another room mate, but please don't blame her for not turning against her boyfriend. Who knows, if you move out and spend a little less time together, eventually you might even understand each other and stay good friends.
2007-02-10 14:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by harakiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop. Mean it. If he doesn't, you have to choose: either keep on being a victim (for the rest of your life) or report him to the University. I don't know of any colleges which don't have rules about it. Your life. Your choice.
If she is not controlling her bf, that says something about how she feels about you. Most friends are NOT forever, despite the myths to the contrary. The longer this continues the worse your ultimate separation is going to be. Ideally, you want to separate on good terms. Thats hard when she's allowing the harassment. She's either part of the solution or part of the problem. R-E-S-P-E-C-T.
2007-02-10 14:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once had my personal room with bathing room in an area i shared with 3 others. their bathing room door grow to be damaged yet i informed them to appreciate my privateness and go away my room on my own (my room's door had no lock nor ought to i connect one, it grow to be basically through pleading that it may well be saved close). all went properly till a coworker stayed with us one evening. he didnt like the reality that the important bathing room door grow to be damaged so my roommates informed him to apply mine. the subsequent morning i awakened and positioned that, at the same time as in my bedroom, he stole my assistance i worked troublesome for that evening off my table. the point of my tale, it would no longer look like a huge deal to them yet privateness is major and also you want to substantiate they comprehend this. desire all is going properly.
2016-12-04 00:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by cutburth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your frined should understand how you feel and if she is gonna take something such as a boyfriend over you she really wasn't your friend after all relationships coma nd go but your frinds are a big fcator in your life don't let an *** hole like her boyfriend tear you guys apart i've been thru similar **** don't let it go
2007-02-10 14:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just too into him. Just move out. You can hang out with other people and find somewhere to move. Just tell her: "Whatever..."
2007-02-10 14:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by joe m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another roommate
2007-02-10 13:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by exterminator6969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋