what will you do about it? whether it be marriage or a job.
2007-02-10 13:01:27 · 12 answers · asked by Crissy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im in a verbally abusive marriage
2007-02-10 13:07:54 · update #1
no matter what is hurting u it is always best to get away from it. if my husband was abusing me i would divorce him if there was no other way to work it out. if i had tried everything to change it and it wasn't working it would be better to live alone than live where your abused.
2007-02-11 00:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In the job case, stick with it until you find a new job to replace it. The trying to find a job period is no fun, especially the no income part. In the case of a marriage, try to work it out with counselling, but if that doesn't work, divorce.
2007-02-10 13:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not the sort of question that anyone can answer helpfully. There are a million different kinds of unhappy situations. Ones you can change, ones you can't. Ones that are right in the middle of your life, ones that are really none of your business. Ones that might kill you, ones that are painful but bearable. Ones that are totally your fault, ones that aren't. Tell us some more, and maybe we can help you!
2007-02-10 13:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im in a verbally abusive marriage and my boss was a crazed maniac also. its not easy, you just gotta believe you deserve better. and make plans to get out of it if you can. whether job or marriage! dont let it get you down and dont believe a word they say. seek counseling before your torn to shreds
2007-02-10 15:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at your situation and see what is causing your problems. Review the problems and think of way you can eliminate it for the better good. If, the problems cause unhappiness that you can not bear at all, I suggest to try to leave the situation and look for something better for you and your life.
2007-02-10 13:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by yoshi2919 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think in any either situation. you have to be honest with yourself and do what's best for you. it's not easy to leave what you know but you are a much healthier person mentally and physically when you are happy. if somethings not working it's in the best interest of both parties to get out when it's early so no one gets hurt or humiliated. take care.
2007-02-10 13:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the situation and go find happiness elsewhere.
2007-02-10 13:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confident, i became delighted as quickly as I broke it off with my woman on our wedding ceremony day, because of the fact she paid for each thing and that i performed alongside and left her on the alter in front of her finished pals and family members. She were secretly napping with one in all my maximum suitable acquaintances in the army. I left her merely how she left me... taken aback and embarrassed!
2016-10-01 22:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can give you all the advice in the world 'till you're blue in the face... you need to follow what your heart and mind says my dear!
**big hugs**
2007-02-11 03:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Spanky C ® 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grab a chocolate bar
2007-02-10 13:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋