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I had a miscarriage during the last week of January, and I was only 8 week along... How long can I grieve before moving on and trying to conceive again?

2007-02-10 12:59:46 · 11 answers · asked by Hot Momma 83 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Trying to Conceive

I went to the doc last week and he gave us the thumbs up for trying again...

2007-02-10 13:13:04 · update #1

11 answers

There is no limit on how long a person should or shouldn't grieve. It could take one month, one year or maybe a life time. You just take it one step at a time. Although you don't want to cause another miscarriage due to depression. You know you getting over the grieving when you can look at things that use to make you cry because they reminded you of the baby and not cry. Best thing for you is to find someone to talk to. Maybe find someone who has been in your position and ask them how they handled the situation.
Grieving takes time don't rush it, but you will always have that loved one in your heart. I am sorry for your loss and your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

2007-02-10 13:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by mystique_dragon4 4 · 0 0

I'm sorry about your loss. The time for you to grieve should be left up to you and your husband since you guys were connected with this. I hope you guys continue on and I wish both of you happy times with your two kids and any future kids.

2007-02-10 13:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by I'm no Angel 2 · 1 0

grieving is depend on you
I have 3 misc I sometimes see a child that kind a look like me or think could have depend on the age I would start crying
my advise is grieve until you feel better
I am sorry for your lost
and I hope you feel better soon

2007-02-10 13:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0 0

Sorry to hear that ...............you can grieve as long as you want to . Your heart and body will tell you when it is time to move on . I know this is hard for you ,but you will have another chance again to become pregnant again.! Good luck to you

2007-02-10 13:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 1 0

You should talk to your doctor. Note that 25% of all of pregnancies are lost within the first six weeks since the woman's last menstrual period. So I do not think you need to do anything.

2007-02-10 13:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ron H 6 · 1 0

Don't rush yourself... you lost your child. If you feel ready, continue trying, if you don't, take your time. Some people don't take that long because they hadn't really bonded yet... or they didn't even know until 7 weeks or something, and some people bond with their unborn child quickly.

2007-02-10 13:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Give your body time to heal before trying again.
My doctor said you should wait 6 weeks (minimum) between pregnancies (whether completed or not).

Good luck!

2007-02-10 13:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by kabmiller@verizon.net 4 · 1 0

It all depends on you for the griving process. As for trying to convieve again talk to your doctor and make sure everything got flushed from your system

2007-02-10 13:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by hockey_chick44 2 · 1 0

when you feel like you are ready to give it another try. no one can tell you how long to grieve for. its your body and mind you decide that for yourself. when you are ready you will know.

2007-02-10 13:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by mousies_mom 1 · 1 0

Take your time, it is really a personal decision for you and family.

2007-02-10 13:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by momof3 1 · 1 0

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