What's the best way that I can mistreat a woman so that she'll think I'm a sexy bad boy?

Question

I wish I was kidding, but I'm not. Women hate me for being a healthy, intelligent, confident man, and dismiss me as "boring" and "too nice", and I'm tired of that. So, I need to start mistreating women so that they'll see me as a challenge, and will think I'm exciting.

Please offer some good advice on how to go about this.

Answer 1

It's not that you need to mistreat a woman, you just haven't found the right woman. Women that go for "bad guys" will later find out that those guys are crappy fathers and husbands.

Answer 2

You say you're confident, but you're wanting to be someone you're really not? Hmmm. Stay the way you are! I married one of those "too nice", and so-called "boring" guys. We've been married for 11 years, have 2 kids and I love him more every day. Not all girls like "bad" boys, I sure don't. Don't let a few women that haven't realized your value get you down.

Answer 3

First off,DONT stop being yourself. Intelligent,confident,healthy,etc IS sexy and a real woman looking for a real relationship,is looking for those qualities. No woman looking for a relationship wants someone that treats her like ****. I guess its just the women your hooking up with. Find someone thats for you,likes you for exactly what and who you are,someone that thinks your the most exciting man out there. If you try to be someone your not,eventually it will end in disaster. You shouldnt have to change for anyone!

Answer 4

Mike,
This is SO sad. If you're really serious and not just trying to get a "rise" out of us, then I have a question for you as well as some advice. Do you REALLY want the type of woman who wants to be treated poorly? If you're as intelligent as you believe yourself to be, what would this type of woman have to offer you? What you're speaking of is the shallow desire of an insecure man who is searching for an abusive relationship based on nothing short of a total lack of respect. My advice to you is to be yourself. There is enough "phoniness" in our society. Try looking/waiting for a woman with whom you can share a life centered around mutual respect, love (and/or admiration), and dignity. Okay?
Peace

Answer 5

now you cant just change off the bat. you have to graduallly make a change.

1. Dont be on time, try to be 5 to 10 mins. late at everything you do with women. whether it be phone calls, or meeting somewhere

2. Ignore them, dont give them your full attention but yet do give them attention.

3. be a jerk once in awhile, trust me chicks love men who are jerks. they'll never admit it though. be a jerk but not disrespectfull, women think they can change a bad boy into a good boy. its funny, use it to your advantage.

if you fail once its alright there a millions of women out there. Dont sweat just one, let them sweat you.

trust me dude

Answer 6

Don't go against who you are. When you are older, women will really appreciate you. Also, choose women who are confident and know the difference between a great guy and a doormat. Really, be yourself and you will find a great girl. Change and you will only find yourself some lousy women.

Answer 7

I like a cheeky, cocky attitude and a naughty sense of humour. When women say you are too nice, it usually means they are taking advantage of you, so don't let women do this to you.

Answer 8

Just remember this. If you have to act someone you're not, you are not being true to yourself. You'll be considered a fake. You'll find someone but she will like you for the real you.

Answer 9

lol, nice question...start making fun of women, act like you don't give a damn about them, lift weights so you look stronger, and have and have that confident attitude where you don't have to depend on women for happiness

Answer 10

be yourself and dont be someone your not to impress someone, when the right person comes along she'll love you for who you are.