2007-02-10 12:38:12 · 15 answers · asked by whereRyou? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, life is way to short to waste my time and theirs in a loveless relationship.
2007-02-10 15:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Love is an action, not a feeling! If I don't love my wife it would mean I am to blame not her! Why would I let her know that I have a problem that she can't solve and only I can solve it? Now if I am trying (action) and something she is doing is hindering that action, that's the info I would share! Like if my communication sucks, and I am reading, studying, practicing and attempting to overcome that problem, and she keeps walking away when I try to communicate, THAT'S when I would tell her "we" need better communication. But, never would I say that I don't love her. If she cheated, that's when you just say get out. No need to ever say you don't love her.
2007-02-10 12:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i sure would tell them as honesty is the best policy BUT i dont plan on not loving my spouse. I love him SO very much and he means the world to me and to my life.
2007-02-10 12:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not in a million years ! I never expected to be " in love " every single day of my marriage though......sometimes Id like to poke the mans eye out ! But the impulse passes....and he does something sweet...and I remember why I married him.....and I love him again.
2007-02-10 18:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by RedHairedTempest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think instead of telling him you don't love him, try focusing on the things you really like about him. My guess is that you have been focusing on things that annoy you, or things he isn't doing right...but there obviously were wonderful things that you loved about him when you got married. Try to remember what those things are and focus on the positive. If you have kids then it is important that they have loving supportive parents. If he is treating you badly or being abusive then I think that you need to take action and separate yourself..but you can find things to love about people just as easily as you can find things to "hate" about them... it's all in your power!
2007-02-10 12:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you mean if I fell out of love? yes i would tell him how I felt! Its only fair to be honest with your spouse regardless of love or not!
2007-02-10 12:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, for sure. for both your sakes. I know it's going to be very dififcult but not as difficult as it will be to lie to him for weeks... months... In the end if you don't tell him that you don't love him soon, you will end up resenting him and make his life hard... and don't forget your happiness too.
God Bless.
2007-02-10 12:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex waffle for 2 YEARS---"I don't love you---I think I love you---I don''t think i ever loved you--I'm not sure, can I love you, why don't I feel love"
I wish he had just TOLD me.....because a clean cut heals faster!
2007-02-10 12:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i didnt 4 a long time.eventually i did.
2007-02-10 13:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course. life is too short to live miserable.
2007-02-10 12:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋