I am a lesbian and I have been in a relationship for just over 2 years with the same woman. We do not live together and she lives in a different state but we always made time to talk everyday when we could not be together in person. I do have some trust and jealous issues but I never show it until I have reason. I have caught her in small lies lately. She has been talking to 2 guys she tells me they are just friends. She told me I was acusing her for no reason and I was making her sad. She also has been sad about her mom and sister not getting alone. Last time we talked a week ago she told me I will talk to you in the afternoon and "i love you and you are my everything." It's been a week and I still have not heard from her. I did write her emails 2 times with no replys. What would you think is going on and should I not try to contact her and leave her gussing what i'm doing just as she is leaving me in the dark. What do people think in their minds when a lover stops talking?
2007-02-10 12:32:26 · 8 answers · asked by trj25822 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That she's tired of your insecurity issues. Grow up.
2007-02-10 12:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Looks like you need to give her some more space. Sometimes people drift apart especially when they live far apart and don't get to see each other often. Do you have other friends who can help you so that you don't get too sad. You should be around other people who care about you during this time. Maybe you can call and talk to someone about this.
2007-02-10 12:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
possibly she met the lady even as you've been in a relationship already and the reason she became breaking grants in the route of the best became because she felt so responsible for most suitable you on and finally in basic terms had to allow you to comprehend the actuality. possibly she wasn't into threesomes or something like that because she quite wasn't and then met someone that met both actual and emotional desires. i'm especially you didnt change her sexuality, some human beings in basic terms change and also you should regulate it. Sorry on your discomfort.
2016-11-26 23:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be mature, kids play hide-and-go-seek it seem as if she has alot on her plate right now and maybe she jus needed to find a happy place but keep tryin to reache let her kno u are there. dont end 2 years of love and commitment over 2 weeks of nutthin
2007-02-10 13:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by HP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see her in person.
2007-02-11 03:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and just be honest that you miss her and want to know what on her mind
2007-02-10 12:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by ken m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maby she's gone to 'the other side'. Change of heart, it could happen.
2007-02-10 12:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by gotabedifferent 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call her and see whats goin on.
2007-02-10 13:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by mulattoprincess91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋