how to deal with a s l u t ?

Question

how to deal with a s l u t?

my ex girlfriend is a really nice girl. we broke up a couple weeks back and now we're really good friends with each other. i really care about her as a friend and unfortunatly shes a really big s l u t.
she says shes 'proud' of it which is just immorally wrong in my opinion. how could i convince her that it isnt a good direction to take.
shes only 15 and shes thinking about having sex with boys shes just met!! i take it as my duty to stop her from doing anything stupid. what can i do? ive already told her how much of a stupid f*cker shes being but that doesnt seem to work |:

Answer 1

Well, comon! What would Jesus do?

Haha. Just kiddin' w/ya.

Telling your friend she's a "stupid f(/cker" doesn't really help. All that does is call her stupid and nobody likes to be called stupid.

Also, friends never owe each other anything or have duties. Friends do cuz friends wanna do. If you really wanna help her, then you have to want to help her for her sake, not to get some guilt burden off your own back so you can feel good.
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Alright, so you're worried about your friend's well-being and wanna genuinely help her out like a good friend does. You gotta realize here that if she carries pride around over this that it is her decision. All you can do is remind her of the mature choices she can make and that if she doesn't, she's assuming some pretty dangerous risks. If she decides to turn around, then be there to comfort her and welcome her back into the real world.

If she continues drifting down the wrong path, then it doesn't really matter what you do. You can talk to her parents, confide in her friends, and watch after her all you want, but if you do that, she'll think you're a creep. Sorry, but it's really up to her to live her own life.

The best advice that can be given here is to live your own life as much as she needs to live hers. Be open to her and don't forget who she is now, but don't believe for a moment that it's your obligation to watch after her. Go out and make new friends, get to know more people, and hang out with all sorts of people. You're only a teenager and you have so much life ahead of you. The more kinds of people you get to know, the better prepared you'll be later when YOU have to make these kinds of decisions.

Best of luck.