I am a practicing Witch with 9 years experience of walking the path, and honoring my Craft. I will tell you what you have already heard Kayla, and that is that you seriously need to rethink your request. I know you may feel like the person in your life is the only one you'll ever want to be with, but I have got to tell you that whether it should last or whether it should end, you must accept it as what is meant to be. Any true Witch will tell you; as so many have here, that it is wrong to take away free will. You might think its just a little spell, but there are no little spells, and sometimes you are not equipped to deal with the consequences of your own actions. Imagine that someone decides they want you to be with them forever, but what you want is to be with another who you feel is your true soulmate. They however have a different opinion of what you should feel, so they bind you to them for life. Taking away free will is wrong on any level. You psychologically create a slave who is never able to be free in thought and action. Then consider how would you ever know if this person truly loved you as much as you loved them. It might after all just be the spell and not their heartfelt feelings. We as Wiccans honor the Rede which tells us:"An it harm none....Do What Ye will", therefore we accept responsibility for our own lives and our actions be it positive or negative & try to live by those words. To take away free will is to harm, therefore unleashing the consequences of the three-fold law upon ourselves. "Mind the Wiccan Law Ye Should, Three times bad and Three times good". You need to focus on growing and learning, and appreciating what you have. Just don't take it for granted, continue to put real effort, love & trust into the relationship & if its meant to endure it will no matter what the circumstances. But it will because its in your hearts...not something that you forced upon him. To add a little extra something to think over; I have been married for 16yrs and with the same man for 18...half of that has been dedicated to honoring a magickal lifestyle and in that time I have never used a lovespell or lovepotion on him not even in my greatest moments of despair of which we have had a few over the years. I am one of those women who needs to know that he is with me because he chooses to be with me..., not because I decided for him that he would be.
2007-02-10 16:34:02
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answered by Heart of Isis 2
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No offense, but I wouldn't consider giving someone like you a love spell any more than I'd consider giving a child a loaded gun.
Magic isn't a game, or a toy. It has serious consequences, not the least of which is that whatever you do comes back on you three times over -- and if you try to override someone else's free will, the results can be very nasty. Do you really want an obsessed stalker on your hands, for example? Or do you want to find your own free will eroded to the point where you can't think for youself and are compelled to do what someone else tells you to?
If your boyfriend falls out of love with you, have the decency and the good grace to let him go. Clinging and struggling against the inevitable just leads to suffering. Life will be full of disappointments and things you can't control. There's no better time than the present to start taking that lesson to heart.
2007-02-10 20:27:27
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answered by prairiecrow 7
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Yes, I practice witchcraft. As a Wiccan, I won't give you a spell because it's against everything I believe. There's free will involved as well as the three fold law... not to mention the fact that you would have no idea how to handle the spell or it's consequences unless you're already a practicing witch... in which case, you wouldn't need to ask for a spell. Sorry.
2007-02-10 21:43:03
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answered by Brooke 3
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Yes I do practice witchcraft, because I'm Wiccan. But no, no Wiccan can help you force your will on anyone else. That's against the rules.
What troubles me more about you, is that you have been asking for some time about black magic, and it is clear that your intentions are to impose your will on someone else.
You must use the strongest spell in the world: Love. But love is a two way street. If your boyfriend no longer loves you, let him go. Someone better will come and take his place.
I applaud my fellow Wiccan brothers and sisters for sticking to the Rede. Blessed Be )0(.
2007-02-11 10:08:53
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answered by David G 6
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Together forever. Sounds wonderful... doesn't it?
Certainly such a spell 'could' be done - but it may potentially have consequences that you have not considered.
First of all - I would assume that for one reason or another you suspect that the two of you might not feel inclined to stay together, otherwise why would you ask for such a spell? Potentially that would mean the spell might have to keep both of you together - even if one or both of you wished to break up. Assuming you could accept the idea of forcing someone to live their life as your puppet - let me ask this: Are you sure that -you- really love this guy? Are you going to be satisfied with just the illusion of love - because if he would really have broken up with you and is only staying "in love" just because of the spell - then you are really just going to be having a relationship with a spell...
Not a person.
That said; I would ask you to consider one more thing - what if it was really "a love spell to keep you and your boyfriend together forever"? What if you actually got literally, -precisely-, what you wished? If like most women you actually out-lived your man... and yet because of your spell - you stayed together... regardless. Have you thought what might happen then?
Such a spell, if it was powerful enough to keep two people together and in love - for a lifetime - could potentially cause you to die with him! Or perhaps worse... even after his death, he might be bound to stay with you forever by the power of magic fueled by love - pretty much the only thing stronger than death... he might become a walking horror at least not so good to be with if he starts to decay. Of course you would still be happily in love with his walking corpse - and of course since you two are still happily "together forever" the sleeping arrangements would not change...
Umm, No. I think maybe I'll pass.
2007-02-11 05:10:46
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answered by Michael Darnell 7
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As a Witch I know of such spells , but Dear One no self respecting Witch will give you one... I know that you are young and the world is still a strange place, but we don't use the Craft to manipulate anothers mind.. That is breaking the 26th verse of the Wiccan Rede---- Eight words the Wiccan Rede fulfil--an' it harm none, do what ye will...Not to mention an entire life time spent weekly bolstering your spell, no Dear One let the natural flow and the unnatural go.....
2007-02-10 22:11:34
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answered by Bunge 7
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No. Whatever will be, will be. Learn to surf that wave and accept events as they unfold. If you are so desperate to be together forever with him, does this mean you don't have faith that he wants to be together forever with you? If this is true, you are asking someone to bend his will. Big no-no. Sorry, but you'll just have to rely on your own feminine whiles to keep him around.
2007-02-10 20:01:59
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answered by St. Toad 5
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Yes I do, but I won't give you a spell. If he ever wants to leave you, he will. You cannot use a spell to affect the will of another person. That would be mean and disgusting.
2007-02-10 20:43:58
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answered by moonfreak♦ 5
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any "love spell' is nothing more than a "binding". it is forcing another to do something against their "will" and WILL fade and leave the exact opposite...hate!!!! consider if someone bound you to them that you did not feel love for? how much respect would you have for that person after the fact?
2007-02-11 02:26:32
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answered by mom tree 5
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Don't need much practice, I'm very well versed thank you. As for romance, I'm afraid that's one trick only you can perform Dear.:)
2007-02-10 20:43:49
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answered by Tori M 4
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