The drugs have made him stoned.
2007-02-10 11:44:17
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answered by Anonymous
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Could be several issues here. Whenever my wife asks me how work went, I always give her the same response: dull, repetitive and boring.
Us men grind down our spirits and body at the workplace, and instead of just pestering him, tell him how proud you are of him for doing it anyway. You are proud of him, aren't you?
Also, sometimes when a guy says nothing is wrong, it means nothing is wrong. What can make things bad is a pushy wife trying to find the underlying truth to the statement "nothing is wrong". I've had female coworkers come up and ask me, "why are you mad at me? You're not talking." I'll respond, "Whenever I have nothing to say, i generally have nothing to say." Odd concept, eh? Depression meds have side affects as well. I hear they can zombie-fy a person.
2007-02-10 19:47:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Something or things are bothering him and it's unlikely related to you. He thinks he can sort it out but so far not. It is more likely work related than social. He may be competent at his job but gets bogged down by politics, bad bosses, etc.
Over 10 years ago, a newspaper reported that people with securityclearance jobs had higher chances of affaris/divorce, alcohol or substance abuse. They couldn't talk about their work but it is human nature to show off now and then. So they stewed a lot.
If he has brothers or close men friends, try approach them without making him look bad. Just ask these other men to cheer him up a bit or get him to go out. Exercise helps as far as depression is concerned.
2007-02-10 21:59:02
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answered by Sir Richard 5
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My wife went through a span of being on depression meds. It was a terrible time in our marriage. She too sat like a dud, not wanting to talk. She often did not want to burden me with the things that burdened her emotionally, figuring that they were not my problem. That is not necessarily the best way to look at it, but I am offering the experience of a fellow spouse of a depressed person. I know how hard it is/was. I know the "roommates" feeling.
Ask specific questions about things that are of interest to him. If he is under-responsive, give him that space, but show that you are interested. From there, your expectations may need to be adjusted.
2007-02-10 20:55:02
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answered by Bob T 6
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It honestly could be nothing. I used to be the same way and not feel like talking, and when my husband did the same I pushed him for answers and we ended up fighting even more. All I can suggest is to not push to hard for answers because it might irritate him and if nothings wrong to begin with it's pointless to get him aggravated. If the problem persists maybe ask a professional what you should try doing. Good Luck!
2007-02-10 19:47:08
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answered by butterfly25baby 2
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Seek marriage counseling and help for you and for this marriage. Also you need counseling for you too. He may not know how to communicate or talk that well and just may need to learn how to do this. Sit down with him at times and just hold his hand or sit next to him and watch tv for him and be there for him . Show him how much you love him and tell him so as well.
http://www.drphil.com
2007-02-10 19:46:35
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answered by Lady Hewitt 6
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Give him some space-- He must be trying to cope with something-- Be glad he is home and not out with another woman or his friends-- sit by him and let him know that no matter what he is going thru you are there for him-- Be encouraging-- Mom of many
2007-02-10 19:45:34
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answered by ebsscsc55 1
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Communication is everything in a relationship, with out that... there's nothing. Tell him how you feel. Tell him what you are telling the world.
2007-02-10 19:44:59
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answered by BE HAPPY! 4
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You need to wake him up and the only way to do that is to make him think he isn't important to you anymore .If you work don't come right home and don't call him.You no the games you have to play I don't have to tell you.I no it isn't a very nice thing to do but it might be the only way to make your husband think he is losing you
2007-02-10 19:55:00
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answered by Teenie 7
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his meds may need adjusting. talk to his doctor.
also ask if he'll go to a marriage counsler with u. If he won't go by yourself.
2007-02-10 20:00:38
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answered by lectric lady 2
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