2007-02-10 11:37:44 · 21 answers · asked by DefenderOfTheMeek22 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Why does every nice relationship have to lead to something as horrific as marriage. Can't we all just get along?
2007-02-10 11:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends on how both of you feel about the situation. If you are in a place where you are comfortable in the relationship as it stands and you are happy with that...AND...the other person is also content in doing the same thing, then it's OK. Now, if you are looking for more in your life and are staying in a relationship that you are just comfortable in, you may end up hurting the other person and yourself by not being honest about your feelings. It is really best to feel out the other person's feelings.
Just remember one thing, you don't get the time that you wasted back when you find your true soulmate...
2007-02-10 19:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by ca0324 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if what you're aiming for is marriage or not. If you aren't planning on ever getting married or don't believe in marriage, then I don't think it's a problem, unless you just don't see any future at all with the person. If, on the other hand, you want to get married, you should probably try to find someone who is looking for the same thing.
2007-02-10 19:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by radioflyer57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...why do all relationships have to be building towards marriage. As long as your spouse (if you ever have one) understands that you and the other person had a sexual history but are still friends, there's nothing wrong with it.
2007-02-10 19:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by nyhtshade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course
i have done the married thing and all its good for is spending money getting in and out of it
i have been happily unmarried for yrs and yrs and would not change it
yrs ago you had to be married to get a joint account and be on ins even mortgages now you can do all that without that stupid paper
2007-02-12 05:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Especially if you're planning on purchasing something major, want a child, planning on moving, etc.
2007-02-10 19:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Emerald Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't. You would be treating the idea of sex with contempt by turning it into just a craving that you satisfy whenever and wherever.
2007-02-10 19:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Artie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. You could be together for the rest of your lives. Who needs marriage?
2007-02-10 20:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since ur still asking advice bout this, seems 2 me that u havent REALLY made up ur mind yet about this person. hang n awhile longr. ppl hve been know 2 change their minds.
2007-02-10 19:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by big foot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it does! marriage is just a piece of paper. you can still love them just as much as if you were legally married.
2007-02-10 19:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋