I don't know how to talk with a person who always is zoning into another space when I try to talk to them. There is never any eye contact.
2007-02-10 11:36:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is actually a sign of an abusive relationship.. cannot connect, will not acknowledge or honor you... is a major sign of an emotional problem, passive aggressive behavior
get the book... The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans... you might be suprosed about what else he i oing that fit that catagory
2007-02-10 11:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by drjen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with silver star. or they have so many things on
their mind. married with children was a funny comedy
show on tv. divorced with children can be funny too.
or teens with children can be funny too. they showed us
all those films about teen marriage in school. it frightened
many of us off. i got married in high school. my job
at jack in the box for 1.35 an hour wasn't cutting it.
we tried for 2 years off and on. she's extremely successful
today. gave away the kid, got remarried several times.
she let the flowers bloom as they may. i suffered terribly
over the years. but i got remarried many times too, just
for brief periods. you are the bravest people of all who
raise kids forever. its one thing to be a father, its another
to be a dad. the courage to head a family to me is absolutely
superhuman. can you stay up all night with a sick child
that is terrified and still go to work the next day? can you
imagine people criticizing britney spears for how she
raises her child. the people in child protective services, many
times have no personal experience with kids. they couldn't
diaper a kid if they tried. they never have. they are all
just a bunch of academics. i'm a great-grandpa but i'm
not supposed to know it. they think i don't know i know.
spying can reveal much. her diary revealed much.
2007-02-10 11:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by joe snidegrass 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it means they are embarrased or are lying or have something to hide. Ask them why they cannot look you in the eye when talking to you. See what they have to say in response. They could have add or adhd too.
2007-02-10 11:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem -- This person may be farsighted, my husband was. You might want to mention to them that you want some eye contact when you are speaking. Then they will be more conscious about it.
2007-02-10 12:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by StormyC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a) that you're female and he could care less what you're saying, or what you think
b) He's lying
Neither one is worth putting up with the 5 min crappy sex you get once a week. Am I right?
Dump him. He doesn't know you're alive.
2007-02-10 12:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are either distracted (and thus rudely not paying attention) or trying to hide something...
2007-02-10 11:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their either cheating on you or not in love with you anymore. but I don't know, it might be something else. Ask him what's going on.
2007-02-10 11:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ADD or shy
but nothing personal I am sure
2007-02-10 11:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
THEY ARE LYING. PEOPLE WHO AVOID EYE CONTACT ARE NOT TELLING THE TRUTH
2007-02-14 10:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by Christie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have crazy eyes or something?lol
2007-02-10 11:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by ja_ross_58 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋