i have a few lesbian friends who refer to straight women with children as breeders, ive notice they never really pay much attention to children but this is just my two particular friends is this the case with most of them,
2007-02-10 11:22:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh no, Dearest, most of us love children very much. My Partner and I would have had children if not for my medical problems (drat and double drat) but I've made up for it by taking care of the children of close freinds and relatives who leave the infants and toddlers with me. I do wish I could have had at least one child but it wasn't to be (triple drat!!!!) It's very very rude of your freinds to treat the straight ladies so. That's what creats emnity between the straight culture and us. Most of us are quite harmless (unless you get between us and the chocolate...hee hee) Blessings, my dear one.
2007-02-10 11:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you can never assume a large group of people are all going to behave the same way because they have one thing in common, in this case sexuality.
In my experience, many, many lesbians want to have children. Some do not. Just like straight women.
Oh, and I also think that for the most part, when gay people call straight people "breeders", it is a very silly little joke that really isn't meant to be mean at all.
2007-02-10 11:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Elaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like children aren't in their future and they don't want any. There are many happy lesbian and gay couples with children. It's the preference of the individuals and not specific to everyone of a particular group. Some straight couples are MUCH more happy not having children as well.
2007-02-10 11:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by xander2025 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are people, gay, lesbian, straight, or other. All people like and dislike different things. Some straight people hate kids, some lesbians hate kids, some gay men hate kids, etc. Of course, that leaves the other side; some straight people love kids, some lesbians love kids, and so on and so on. I don't think there is a clear answer to your question because everyone is different.
2007-02-10 11:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by I Can Preach Too! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, many have kids in fact.
I have heard of the term "breeders" and it just refers to people who can make kids with their body, or people who are only special because they can make kids. It does not mean that they hate kids because they said this. Also might I add, I have heard of the term "breeders" as a lesson in teaching heterosexuals "breeders" how it feels to be called homosexual, rather than just seeing the person as the person they are. I've seen it used in a joking, but teaching way. Anyways, has nothing to do with hating kids.
2007-02-10 11:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No way! I love kids. I adore my niece and nephew and I wish I could have kids...
The only thing I don't like about the idea of having a kid is the pain of having to go through with childbirth. Well, and the guy part. But I do want to adopt! Which is another problem, with the issue of gays adopting... Figures.
2007-02-10 17:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by Magickal Goodness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just your particular friends. Most of the lesbian women I know love kids or are having them themselves. Usually when a gay person calls someone a breeder, it's not because they don't like children, but they're using it as a derogatory slur at those who have heterosexual (and hence reproductive) sex.
2007-02-10 11:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, not all lesbians hate men or children. It may be your friends have had a rough life or they might be jealous. Most lesbians are just like us. There are good and bad in every group. Just look at your first responder - total fruitcake.
2007-02-10 11:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
WOW, you judge an ENTIRE group of people by your EXTREMELY limited knowledge?
That's really sad.
I'm sure my SON is quite confident in his knowledge of how much he's loved by me.
I just hate OTHER PEOPLE'S CHILDREN!
Especially ill behavied, ignorant, rude and Myopic ones.
2007-02-10 15:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends other personality of the people if they hate kids even if there straight they will still hate kids but if they love kids the will love kids no mater if gay lesbian bi transgender they will still love kids
2007-02-10 11:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by N_A_D_NMYF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋