SERIOUSLY!!! First I talk normal until he asks me a question and then my voice goes from sweet to, "IT'S IN THE OTHER ROOM!!!" raaaaawrrrererr!!! ::::snarl, spit, hiss!!!::::
Any other women or men feel like this??
Married 32 years :D
2007-02-10 11:16:29 · 21 answers · asked by mrs. pepper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A long time together. You two need to find each other again.Do something fun together.Try to see the good in each other. Maximize the good and minimize the bad. This should help put the two of you back on track
2007-02-10 11:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL. I get frustrated too, and I think alot of the of that kind of friction is the spouse's inability to understand your man/woman. There are some basic truths about being married. One is that We're fundamentally different in some basic things. Men are generally simpler and can't find the remote and don't want to talk about work. Women want frilly pink thingies everywhere and chit-chat endlessly to girlfriends. Try to keep those things separate, or understand your sponse and learn to give some leeway.
And LADIES...this crap goes BOTH ways. Us men just don't see the point in whining about it.
2007-02-10 19:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
And all he had do to was take the time to look in the other room. After 32 years, he still hasn't caught on.
2007-02-10 19:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you still feel love for him? Looks like just by asking you a question makes you go (forgive my expression).. crazy.
You don't mention what does your husband says or do to provoke that kind of reaction on you. You only said: horrible husband, is it all about him, or seriously you think it could be you?
Be honest with yourself and see if you need anger management or he needs help.
2007-02-10 19:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are that way because he obviously has betrayed your trust or has disrespected you in other ways. Talk to him about this. If you can't see past this then talk to a counselor. After being married this long would be a shame to throw your marriage away without trying to save it.
2007-02-10 19:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a time out...lol we all get like that but its real bad if it's an all the time thing. i say take a deep breath and then talk sweet. you may need a break from him if he plays i cant find anything with out game just say what did you do before me? but you do need a break and tell him you hate feeling like this and go from there. good luck take care and breath relax and chill out..
2007-02-10 19:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
married, 46 still married to different one the results: still the same I do it too. I have never thought of it that way lol. You made me laugh, I thought oh crap thats me! lol And I don't know the answer. But i find myself doing the same thing. And lately I am pointing out that he is doing it too????
2007-02-10 20:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because they DO ask the stupidest questions!And they ask the same questions again and again because they have forgotten.
And I am not stupid and can't give stupid answers.............. therefore, I also turn into the Exorcist...
Thanks for making me laugh! I needed it!
2007-02-11 12:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Montana Skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start treating your husband the way you would treat a stranger.
It's weird because so many of us are guilty of treating our spouses like crap and strangers like kings.
If you take care of him like a king, he will treat you like a queen :)
2007-02-10 19:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Humble Proclaimer♥ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should take separate vacations this year.
Also keep any firearms that may be in the house under lock and key.
2007-02-10 19:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋