I 've been with my fiance for 18 mths now and we are getting married in 7 wks! Im a sexual active person but being a woman I can't be the one who make the first move all the times. Sometimes I wonder whether He loves me less or not. It is hard not to worry. My self confident is getting lower lower each day. I find it hard to communicate with him. I want him to be more passionate with me, what should I do?
Thank you for reading, I'm so so lonely.
2007-02-10 11:11:48 · 6 answers · asked by 1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If the two of you are getting married in 7 weeks, he might be stressed out about the wedding and the thought of sex has been put on the back burner.....:( Please do not let this lower your self-esteem..... it probably has nothing to do with you and more about what is going on with him...... COMMUNICATE!! :) Tell him what is bothering you and this will not only make you feel better, but set a solid foundation for your communication patterns when you are married. Good luck and Congrats on your wedding!! :)
2007-02-10 11:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are both of you, it depends on that too. Wish you would have put your ages on here. I think that 18 months is a little quick to walk down the isle, but then again it's not like 6 months , now that is bad. QUESTION you have to ask yourself, "What is your gutt telling you, on what is going on with him?" , Also, "How long into the relationship did his sexual desire diminished?", And last but not least, "Do you really want to marry a guy that your already having a little trouble with in the bedroom?"
Since i dont know the answers to all the above, i would suggest that you sit him down, and calmly manner, tell him you want to talk about something with him, and proceed to tell him what is bothering you, and also ask him is their something on his mind??? I"m sure if done in a calm manner you will get your answers... and if by any chance he or you become not ready to go through with the wedding, then don't do it. You will thank yourself in the long run. I promise!
2007-02-10 11:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by MOON13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you sound exactly like me.
i have been marries for 5 weeks now and our sex life has gone so far down hill it's not funnt
it started b4 we even got married and the worst thing is we didn't even get passionate on our wedding night we had a quick one i guess he felt he had to and i had to ask in the first place.
talk to him b4 you take the next step
2007-02-10 11:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by omissy2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is hard to communicate with him now, it's only going to get worse with time. You need to work on that BEFORE you get married. You are going to sit him down and tell him you two need to talk. Tell him you want to make sure everything is worked out before you two get married. Tell him what you told us. If he doesn't listen or isn't willing to talk seriously about this and work it out, then you may want to rethink things.
2007-02-10 11:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if ypu turn him on or not-maybe he just wants to wait untill you are married, i dont know the guy and his views but it might help
2007-02-10 11:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Carpe Diem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to soon to get married especially if you are already not happy.
2007-02-10 11:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by THATONEDUDE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋