Is it true ‘normal’ people don’t cheat? (Or is it just they don’t say so?) Temptation is there but my partner is very nice and sweet…
In the old times and some cultures get many wives... why can't women get more than one guy?
Need some advice from a girl who had cheated… How does it feel?
2007-02-10 11:10:42 · 21 answers · asked by Ceci G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it depends honey. i cheated a lot in high school and i did not care cause i was just having fun and i was not concerned about antibody's feelings but my own, plus i did not love them i mean i was in high school even though i did have very serious relationships i did not love them and so i could cheat. when u love a guy u will not want to cheat. i have a bf now for 2 years and i never think nor could i ever cheat on him cause i love him too much and i cant hurt myself nor him. anyway it sounds like u just don't love the guy so stop waisting your time, unless your still young and are not planning on marrying the guy and want to see how it feels do it, everyone needs an experience to learn from.
2007-02-10 11:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg..u say that ur partner is VERY nice and sweet so why do u wanna cheat him and break his heart? I have NEVER cheated on any1 yet and dont intend to either! if i dont like him then ill just let him know slowly & not try and hurt his feelings too much even tho it will. Anyways but atleast i wouldnt date him and date this other hot guy and two time that poor guy. Being cheated sucks not that i have experienced it but i dont think it is the right thing to do anyways.
Would u feel great if u were the one being cheated? yea think about that and u'll know how it feels.
2007-02-10 23:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that normal people do cheat. Doesnt make it right though.
I think people who feel the urge to cheat do so because something is missing or seriously unwanted in their current relationship, or they simply want to experience the feelings and fun of a new relationship.
Manytimes a woman is with a man, who is too nice or sweet, and which case it becomes really boring... Women like a challange as much as men do and it keeps the relationship alive when the guy plays hard to get, or is a little more difficult.
Maybe ask your man to liven up your relationship... in a nice way ask him to get a spine, and be a little more bad. (If that is what you want.)
I suspect you wouldnt like it if your man cheated on you???
2007-02-10 19:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating has nothing to do with "normal"...it has to do with honesty, respect and caring for your partner, and your personal values...
Some people cheat, some do not...that has nothing to do with "getting many wives"...cultures that accept polygamy have nothing to do with cheating...
If you would like to have multiple partners then do so, but be honest about it...you can date several men if you like or perhaps have one 'primary' boyfriend (or husband) but participate in either the swinging lifestyle where sex with others is acceptable or you may be interested in a polyamory lifestyle where multiple partners simultaneously is acceptable and all are involved only with each other (not people outside the relationship of however many belong to the specific group).
Do what works for you, just be honest about it...the issue with cheaters is that they lie, deceive, and betray...
2007-02-10 19:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated and I've been cheated on. I would say dont do it its not worth losing that self respect. Is there something missing from the relationship your in? I think thats what you need to ask yoour self and if you cant straghit out say no then maybe you should really reconsider your relationship with this man. Hope this helped.
2007-02-10 19:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kiara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i havent cheated and never will. if you love your partner enough, you wont cheat. its not the temptation thats the problem, its your will to give up the fight. awlays put your partner in front of the problem. if you love them, dont cheat. whats the point in cheating anyway. if you know your going to cheat, then maybe you shouldnt be in a relationship
2007-02-10 19:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by starstatus586 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you cheat you cross a line. You can't go back. The relationship is violated and it becomes pointless to a degree. My advice is to break up with him if your desire to cheat is so strong.
2007-02-10 20:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead. Have some fun. Experience life. It is a rush. Very exciting. I highly reccomend it. It will get your heart racing. Enjoy!
2007-02-10 19:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by Kwijibo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat because it will only hurt you and the one you love
2007-02-10 19:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated but I have been cheated on.. not fun.
2007-02-10 19:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Neville 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋