i am pg and he is a little confused and a guy who went to high school with me i saw him at a place we had sex he is chineas and when i have my baby it might be chineas looking what should i do
2007-02-10 11:06:36 · 31 answers · asked by Debra S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
SO your sleeping around and your afraid its not your b/f's baby!?
LMAO... silly youth. DRAMA.
Good luck with that one. Your gonna have to tell the truth!
2007-02-10 11:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First you sound young
Tell you mom right away
Second if you did not have sex with your boyfriend, why would he think he got your pregnant
I would tell him the truth, you do not really love him, if you did, you would not have sex with the other guy
Tell the other guy that got you pregnant
You need to ask yourself do you want the child?
If not, look into adoption. You can still have a life.
It will be a hard one. There are no easy choices to make
Good luck
Tell your mom
2007-02-10 19:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get some serious counseling. i think being pregnant is one thing, but to be sleeping around probably makes it a little more.... difficult. your situation is a complex one, so i urge you to see a counselor. by the way, does your parents know about what's going on? get help.
as for your boyfriend.... oooh, i can't think of any guy who would be happy about the fact that the woman they are with is carrying someone else's child.. it may only happen in frigging-holly-nonsense-wood, but in real life, i can see that he would be upset. so do the right thing. see a counselor, AND a doctor, and let your boyfriend know what the heck's going on.
2007-02-10 19:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by 我是一条大懒虫 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend should have already figured that the kid coming ain't his. if you guys never had sex then that should have given him 100% proof of that.
any how you need to tell him the truth. if you don't, sometime in the near future you are going to feel really depressed about all this. better clear your conscience now than wait until the kid is born. tell him now and save you both excessive intense pain.ask for the chinese guy,tell him about the situation and see how he reacts. good luck.
2007-02-10 19:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend the truth about what happened between you and this other guy, and that your pregnant with this guys baby. Even if you dont tell him, he will know the difference when your baby is born. Does this other guy know your pregnant with his baby? Good luck and I hope everything works out for you!
2007-02-10 19:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by she2cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth, it will come out in the end anyway. Do you before the baby comes, don't put the baby through something like that.
2007-02-10 20:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like you need to own up to cheating on him. Tell him the truth. Then, you need to let the other guy know that he is going to be a father. Good luck with everything.
2007-02-10 19:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to come clean with your boyfriend and with the father of the baby. Your boyfriend has to know he's not the father if you've never had sex - he's going to know you cheated regardless if you tell him or not. Be the grown up and tell them both (not at the same time). They each have a right to know.
2007-02-10 19:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?? how old is your boyf?? If you have never had sex with him, how can it be his baby?? he should be able to figure this one out.
Now as for the chinese kid, unless you had sex with everyone you went to high school with, of course it will be chinese looking.
If you cant keep your legs shut at least use protection so you don't spread disease!! NASTY
2007-02-10 19:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Tell the truth.
2) Call Jerry Springer and get some money for your troubles.
2007-02-10 19:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Better to fess up now, rather than later. Either way, you've put yourself in a bad position. Better to just get it over with. If your boyfriend is going to break up with you over this, better now than after he's gotten his hopes up thinking maybe it's his kid. Lying will never get you anywhere.
2007-02-10 19:17:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋