Do i really love her?
Here's my story..... hopefully won't let ppl get bored.
My wife (ex.) cheated on me with her penpal instead talking about friendship but love for 2 - 3 years ago and after seeing him face to face with him for 6 days with her sister along. (her vacation with me asking her sister go along and i'm taking care of 2 son) i already know she's got this penpal when we got first sight and in love till marriage from -->start 1 year dating --> 1 year engagement --> marriage 7 years till 8th. january, 2007.
Now our marriage ends at 12th jan, 2007 and 3 month to court filed. Am a father with custody of 2 son (6 & 3) and my ex. go to china to meet her BF (penpal).
to be continue.....
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6 hours ago
i'm trying to let go those memories and take care of my sons. i'm being trying to find my new partner and it's going out of control for me.
1st. in my mind, any ppl good to my son and i will take care of her. My maid taking care of them and i wanna be with her. i always ask her to be my mate but she want to think 1st. because WE are in different kinds of standard (world) and she's at lower but am higher. WE even have sex before and really wanna start relationship BUT in time .... ppl said it's not my true love of her and i stop this relationship.
2nd. am in relationship with a girl who's got a unresponsibility husband with got 2 sons. she's always saying she not happy with it. wanna break up but she's always back off when i tell her leave him coz you dont deserves with this guy to follow me and i will bear her to conform her life. BUT she's always turn back on me saying she's can left him .... finally i give up and break this relationship.
5 hours ago
3rd. i even wanted to having a relationship with a bar pro but fail. because i know this is wrong and happy can control it. She's rented my apartment and i tell her we only can be friend only.
Finally ---> this girl i met she's 20 years old and am 36 years old with custody of 2 son. She's knew am divorced with 2 son and tonight we're happy going out for date. We hold hand together and kiss. quite funny when holding her hand and kissing her lip ---> my feeling quite funny and didnt feel hot.
(as what have happen when i with my ex. before)
Am i ready for her or love her, now?
Our communication quite OK, can chat.
please give me some advise...
2007-02-10 11:06:34 · 2 answers · asked by peter71 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that you have a chance with the 20 year old or your maid. I don't think that you love either of them yet, but love comes with time. You are a single man now. You don't have to rush to the point of love. Take your time and I'm sure you will make the right decision. Good Luck.
2007-02-12 20:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Oh My! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not too sure what your question is but i would like to help. I give you lots of credit for taking care of your sons but if you need help your questions need to be more with a question I do not think that you love her if you just met her it sounds like you are looking more to fill that blank spot where your ex was for the sake of your kids and yourself take things slow!
Good Luck
2007-02-11 06:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋