Yes i am bi i have a boyfriend and i have a girlfriend they both know about eachother but the thing is my boyfriend is going away to visit his dad for 3 months and weve never been away that long so we had sex he said i dont give good blowjobs i actually have 2 questions first one how do i give a good ******* second one if i get my toung pierced will it feel better for him i am 16 and so i am old enuf everybody does this at this age so plzzzz just aswer those questions
2007-02-10 11:01:20 · 5 answers · asked by Jaz C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This is written from a female perspective, but getting your tongue pierced isn't going to make a difference. Here are some tips if you want to have guys adore you and tell their friends about the most amazing BJ ever...
The very first thing, and the very biggest thing, is to be into it. Enjoy what you are doing, and be excited about it. Everyone wants to think that the things that turn them on turn other people on too. The wrong way would be to give the guy the idea that you don’t like to do it, then he feels like it is bad, or dirty, and no one likes that kind of judgment.
As for specific tips... every guy is different, but there are some things almost all guys like.
Forget everything you have read in Cosmo about how going down is somehow empowering, or that you are in control of his pleasure – that is just feminist political garbage, and it is SO not about that – going down on a guy is about giving pleasure, not taking control.
Get down on your knees in front of him, whether he is standing or sitting – unless you are in a car or something that would prevent that. Guys LOVE seeing their girl on her knees for them. It is the image of power over her or her worshipping his manhood, etc that is a huge turn on.
Pay some attention to his balls. Softly run your nails over them. Lick them, and suck one and then the other into your mouth and flick your tongue over it... once when you are getting started, and then later when you need to take a bit of a break from the “main event;” be gentle... Keep them cupped in your hand after you have moved on to other things, and softly kneed them, be gentle, and don’t tug.
It should go without saying that you should do everything you can to keep your teeth out of the equation. This would be the biggest wrong thing I could think of. It should also go without saying that you want to use your tongue – a lot. I am sure that a soft tongue feels wonderful on a genital. Lick up and down, particularly the underside, and top of the tip... get everything nice and wet before it even goes inside your mouth.
When you are ready to take it inside the first time, close your lips softly, and push them against him so that he pushes your lips open around him as he slides inside. Once again, it is this subtle imagery that will help with his enjoymnet.
When you take him into your mouth, hold him inside and hum softly while he is pressed into your throat.
Try to keep eye contact with your guy. It won’t be possible all of the time, but look up at him as much as is convenient for you.
And of course swallow... It is in your mouth already, it might as well slip down your throat. Personally that is my favorite part, it feels so sexy, warm, and so yummy – and guys LOVE it. Remember to at least act like it is as exciting to you as it is for him. Nothing will ruin a good buzz like judgment, so don’t ruin it at this point after all this work.
Of course – like anything else make sure that you are playing safely. Use a condom if you don’t know that the guy is clean.
Hope this helps and hope it is worth the ten points.
2007-02-12 07:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Piercing your tongue won't add anymore pleasure if you know what your doing in the first place!
I'm sorry, I just can't teach a 16 year old how to give great head. Sorry. There are tons of places on the internet that will.
2007-02-10 11:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people got it and some don't. Getting your tongue pierced isn't going to change that.
Maybe you need to ask your bf to tell you what he likes and what he doesn't while you're going at it. An open line of communication is always best in the bedroom.
2007-02-10 11:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by xander2025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't pierce anything just to please a guy - or a girl - and they shouldn't ask you to! And if you're comfortable enough in this relationship to get sexual with him, you should be comfortable enough to talk to HIM about what his likes and dislikes are.
2007-02-10 11:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what pleases him, ask him for a little direction with his erection.
2007-02-10 11:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋