okay so there's this guy that rides my bus and he is soo funny and nice and cute! i really like him and i talk to him sometimes. and i'm like the only one that laughs at his jokes, and he looks at me a lot, and we have soo much in common! we like all the same songs! and when i'm listening to my iPod, he's always like " I love that song!" and so yeah. what should i do? i realllly like him!!! but on the bus he said he didnt want a girlfriend..but he was just talking to his friends and so he may just be trying to be cool.
2007-02-10 10:59:08 · 22 answers · asked by <33xoxo 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
PLEASE ANSWER THIS PEOPLE! I REALLY NEED ADVICE!! THANK YOU!
2007-02-10 11:13:04 · update #1
ask him if he wants to make out with you
2007-02-17 10:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Rolls Eyes* Don't listen to all the people saying that you're too young. I have a friend who's parents fell into 'puppy love' (acording to everyone around them) when they were only 11, and married as soon as they were out of high school, and are now 45 and still happily married.
He obviously likes you. But If he said that, then maybe he really doesnt want a girlfriend. Just be his friend, don't confess anything. (SERIOUSLY, DONT DO IT, WAIT FOR HIM TO SAY IT! Be sure to give him signs you like him though!} Be a little flirty, not too much though. Hang out with him, ask him to go places with you, like to a coffe shop your house, or the mall or whatever. Don't make it seem like a date, just try and be around him alot. Get his MSN, if he has it, that should be a good way to become closer.
2007-02-10 14:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by This is it. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi - do not make any second guesses no one knows whats going on in his head regardless of what he has said to his mates!! - best way to find out is to ask him! ARGH!! scarey i know - but it will put you out of your misery one way or the other. He sounds like a nice boy and i am sure he likes you - maybe you could use the fact you both seem to be into the same music and suggest you do something togeather - like listen to/ go buy / swap music and when you are alone togeather you will know if its going to blossom into something else!!! good luck
xx
2007-02-16 22:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by emma m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress about these things. The chances are not very good anything lasting will come of a relationship at this age. Just have fun with it. If it happens, cool. If not, oh well.
Life is too short.
2007-02-10 13:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to date. If you are still riding a school bus, you don't need a boyfriend. What do you think you're going to do, marry the guy? Just focus on your studies, and date later when everyone around you is more mature and maybe ...graduated from high school at least?
Olivie
2007-02-10 11:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Olivie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG !!!!!!!!!!!!!
The same EXACT thing happened 2 me
we were talking 1 day then we enxchanged #s
and we talked on the fone a lot n found we had a lot more n common
so i advise u find something INTERESTING 2 talk about so he'll
wanna talk more then give him ur number and then ur on ur own
2007-02-16 07:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by ~**Tay Tay**~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have your best friend call him to find out if he likes you. Just walk up and ask the guy out. If he says no then spit in his face and walk off like you are better than him anyway. Always have the upper hand.
2007-02-17 15:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by orchid0923 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is coming form a guy: He likes you but he just wants to be your friend. Doesn't wanna get too close.
If he was tryin to be cool then he would have said I WANT a girlfriend not I don't want one. C'mon here use your brain.
2007-02-10 11:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with most guys you need to let him ask you out if he wants a girlfriend. and his trying to be cool might be the real deal; because a girlfriend might be considered a weakspott, but you might want to listen to a guy's reply( i mean hello they are from the same planet, i mean gender)
2007-02-10 11:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jadelyn K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i liked this guy at work and i did everything to avoid him not knowing that he likes me too. So one day i got courage and asked him out and he said yes he would love to. we have make a date yet but if you like him girl go after him if you dont you might regret it
2007-02-16 07:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by neokababy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's too embarrassed to express his love for you, or its just that he only treats you as a friend, when you actually had feelings for him! maybe you should drop some hints to him, hinting that you liked him and see how he reacts. if he pretends to act cool again, ignore him for the next few days or pretend that you have another boyfriend!
if he looks sort of anxious, that means he had actually liked you!
2007-02-15 18:34:11 · answer #11 · answered by HumanBeingOnEarth! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋