2007-02-10 10:55:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wait until it comes up in a conversation. If they don't ask when they notice clues as to what you are, they must not care.
2007-02-10 10:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm much more than just my sexuality. I don't pre-plan what I am going to say when I meet someone. The conversation rarely goes there for quite some time. The first questions are where do you live, what are your hobbies, what do you do for a living, how old are you, what religion are you,etc. Would you answer the question "how much money do you have in your savings account?" at a first meeting, I wouldn't. I don't think I have ever been asked by new friends or old friends about my sexuality, it's something I volunteer when appropriate for the particular relationship.
2007-02-10 11:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's printed on my business card so they can see it when I hand it to them. lol. Just kidding.
I don't tell anyone I'm gay unless they will have some sort of impact on my life as a friend or what have you. It's not important to tell every person you meet "hey! I like guys!" I don't see the straights or bi's doing it so why should I?
If someone is going to know you personally then I think you should tell them, but I wouldn't make a big deal about it. Normally I just introduce them to my bf and they get the idea!
2007-02-10 11:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by xander2025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't go out of my way to hide it or talk about it. Sometimes it never comes up. Sometimes it does. It all depends on the situation and conversation.
If I meet someone and they ask if I am married, I tell them that I am not married but have a partner. Usually they get the idea.
2007-02-10 13:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by mdbshop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be old fashion, but I don't see what you do in your bedroom is up for public discussion....people you are meeting may turn into very good friends, then again maybe you will never see them again.
Either way it's not necessary info right off the bat.....
2007-02-10 11:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by curious115 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no need for them to know, there is no need to tell them. You don't define yourself by your sexuality although it is a major part of you. If people ask, tell them but I can see no point in the "I'm the only gay in the village" line.
2007-02-10 11:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by tentofield 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait. Regardless of your preference, I doubt everyone wants to know first thing. (Over sharing, lol) Personally, I'd rather take time to get to know someone as a person, not a "sexuality." Know what I mean?
2007-02-10 11:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by wolfsong1111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think you need to announce it. Straight people don't meet someone and say, "Hi, I'm Jim and I'm straight." That would be weird. The only time I think it might be necessary is when you meet someone that you are attracted to and think they might be gay. You might want to make sure they actually are gay before you make your move.
2007-02-10 13:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by Hmmm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be absurd to announce yourself to a total stranger as "Hello. I am Michael Smith and I'm gay."
For someone whom you've just met anything beyond your name, your occupation, and the current weather conditions would be considered as TMI.
addendum:
Oh good grief! So I don't have to answer any more emails asking me what TMI means...
Too Much Information.
2007-02-10 11:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by castle h 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to the same question, no matter what your sexual orientation is: "Do you have sex the first night?"
There is no right or wrong answer to this one. See what your feelings are and use your judgment...
Good luck!
2007-02-10 11:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by circle_sabine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋