To me, love should not be coined as just a one day thing. If u really love somebody, it should be on a daily basis that u demonstrate that love. It doesn't necessarily have to be gifts, but it could be just thoughts that u share with him/her on a daily basis that would allow ur love to grow even more. I think such gifts would be more meaningful than materialistic gifts that we give during these holiday traditions. It becomes more or less a task that we have to perform on an annual basis like a yearly chore that is expected of us. We would be coined as being "cheap" & "stingy" with our money & in some cases, the relationship would be over if nothing is gifted this year. I have a challenge for u lovers out there. This year, deny ur gift citing that u got them nothing, so u deserve nothing in return. Using this method, u play hard to get. But u also get to see how determined ur lover is as a fighter in his/her quest to give u this gift. Exchange gifts upon the completion of this exercise.
2007-02-10 10:34:00 · 6 answers · asked by Agent X-Factor 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
ok there have been times when me and my man had NO money of any kind and couldn't get each other gifts. and we are still happy and love each other just as much. V-Day is just another day of the year.
2007-02-10 18:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by i hate undies! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has happened with my now husband, and it is ok. He is just not into that sort of thing. Of course he used to feel bad when I got him something, and he had nothing for me, but I told him being together was more important.
2007-02-10 18:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't be sad at all =]] althought flowers would still be nice.. but as long as i had them im sET!
best of luck. my wishes to you!
2007-02-10 18:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would feel bad but i would tell him
2007-02-10 18:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by flip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would be so sad
2007-02-11 18:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋