I'm so tired of this guy he is really annoying!!!! He treats one of my friends like she is a piece of crap and he makes rude comments all the time, and then my other friend acts like he is so great and when he is mean to my other friend she doesn't even stand up for her and just goes along with it! And I thought us as best friends should stand up for eachother! I'm tired of both of them, and I dont know what to do with them!
2007-02-10 10:30:26 · 6 answers · asked by bubbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We are all in a group of friends because he kinda is just in it, but the friend that doesnt stand up for my other friend. there both friends and she doesnt stand up for her when she is gone and I always do!
2007-02-10 10:49:26 · update #1
well it sounds like both of them deserve each other, the girl probably likes him thats why she does not say anything, she has a thing for him. anyway it sounds like they deserve each other.
2007-02-10 10:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. You have two female friends and one has a boyfriend that treats her like crap. You want to stand up to this guy for the way he treats your first friend, but the 2nd friend just goes along with the way he treats her?
Okay. It isn't YOUR relationship. If your friend chooses to be in a relationship with a boy that treats her like crap...then that is her choice. Maybe she doesn't see it. Maybe she doesn't consider it "crap." Who knows why she is doing what she is doing. All you can do as a friend is hang in there. You will have to lead by example. Respect yourself... love yourself.... be kind to yourself... be confident in who you are. And then, respect her, love her, be kind to her, and offer her reinforcement in the things she is good at.
2007-02-10 18:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends don't treat each other that way. If they won't change, your better off without them.
2007-02-10 18:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out less with them,if they don't come around cut them loose. You don't need that negative energy in young life
2007-02-10 18:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by ecclectic1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them say look if your going to act like that then we soulden't hang out
2007-02-10 18:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of them sound like bullies - stay away from them.
2007-02-10 18:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by c'est moi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋