I'm 5 months pregnant and my ex-fiance cheated on me. I kicked him out and I mean it with every ounce of my pregnant belly that I will not take him back. I know I deserve better than what he has to offer. However, I also know that I am tied to him for the rest of my life through this child and I'm wondering will I ever stop feeling like someone is stabbing me in the heart. I am afraid that I will look at this child and forever be reminded of how his/her father hurt me. Will I feel like this forever?
2007-02-10 10:26:10 · 15 answers · asked by chocolat0511 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No
When you see your child born you will feel otherwise. You'll love him and you'll forget it. And when you meet someone new this will go away.
2007-02-10 10:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-28 22:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will get easier, but you will never forget him. If you Love, it never dies, sometimes it turns into hate, but the feelings never die. Your child will remind you of him every time you see him/her, sometimes the memories will be good sometimes bad. You have to get a grip on you feelings before the baby arrives, talk to a therapist, clergy person, etc. I'm sorry to say that none of us "deserve better", life just is, and it is both good and bad feelings. My children are 27 and 23, and we all still think of their mother, we haven't seen or heard from her for over 6 years (yes, she is alive).
2007-02-10 11:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nall girl coming from experience righ t here been there befor I never took mine back and felt like crap my whole pregnancy but when my baby was born I fell in love with my precious baby. There will be times when you will probably look at the baby and think about the loser but keep ya head up and do u
2007-02-10 10:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by eccentric 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
May God bless you and your child, Time heal all pains. in time you will feel better and move on, the sooner the better, and when you look at your child, you may think you will feel this way now, but once you hold that bundle of joy in your arms and look into his/her eyes, all your fears will go away,because you will be so thankful for your gift from God...........Good Luck
2007-02-10 10:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ann J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good you kicked the dog out you go girl.But hopefully he has a job to pay child support.
2007-02-10 10:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your head up. Your emotions are running high and you are stronger than you think...that is obvious. Keep in mind how many women out there are single moms. You will find someone out there who will love you and your child and give you the respect you deserve. You will never look at that baby with any resentment toward him/her. If nothing else everytime you do look at that innocent child it will remind you that you made the right decision by not setting yourself up for disappointment again by taking him back.
2007-02-10 10:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Out of all honest you will probably feel like this for awhile but already accept and know that you deserve better.So do not worry good things are gonna happen to you for being as strong as you are with accepting the fact that there ar emen are out there that care and will appreciate a women like you.And to give you heads up he want miss it till its goneand so he will catch the short end of the stick .Because you are just waiting to exhale.Do not worry you have alot going for you especially you get to raise your baby up how you really want he or she to be.That alone is gonna be good.Especially if it is a boy.
2007-02-10 10:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by weeping eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you won't feel this way forever, and u won't think of him when u see your baby. he has hurt u deeply and you probably shouldn't go back with him but once u get your life back together u will feel differently, maybe u will never like him or trust him but time does heal all wounds. if it just recently happened your just in that first initial shock stage, anger, hurt, disillusioned, but just move on and have your baby and don't take him back, he isn't mature enough to have a serious relationship.
2007-02-10 10:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may feel like this for a long time, if you cannot manage to tell yourself again and again that your child is guiltless for what his father has done to you.
2007-02-10 10:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by corleone 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have thought of this before having sex. As soon as your kid is born, slap your fiance with a paternity test, that way he'll pay for his mistake.
2007-02-10 10:44:04 · answer #11 · answered by Adawg 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋