My wife got mad at me and said she is going to be with another man. Should I believe her?

Answer 1

Whether or not you believe her isn't important. What is important is that no one should make a threat like that when they really care about someone. Sounds like she's already found someone and is trying to blame you so she won't feel guilty.

Answer 2

Sounds like the two of you have some pretty serious problems. I would seek marriage counseling. I would also sit down with her calmly to discuss the ramifications of what she is considering. Is it retaliation for something you have done (or she believes you have done?).
If you love her, let her know it; also let her know that it is important that you both learn to communicate with one another in a more mature manner and to learn better problem solving skills. Why not learn them together?

Answer 3

Yes you should believe her. Because, if she brandishes a threat like that as a weapon, she already has cheated on you. This is quite worse than normal infidelity. She's cheating on you with the intent to hurt you. She is the worst kind of human being. Dump her and move on.

Answer 4

first of all, that ain't cool to make a threat like that. i don't know whether you should believe that or not. Why is she mad at you. Or what did you do to make her mad. If she does it, your problems will never end. I wouldn't want to ever touch that person again. Marriage is suppose to be sacred. And that's adultry.

Answer 5

I don't know if it's a threat or not...but I would calmly ask her..."if you see another man...would you mind if I joined or watched?" It'd be fun to watch her expression....and at the same time you will come off like it doesn't bug you, even if it does. I tend to think she's just trying to rattle your security...using it as a threat to get whats she wants. Most women aren't going to give you warning before they do something like that.

Answer 6

Well, I think that you should believe her because she probably wouldn't threaten you with that if it wasn't true. You must have done something or have continued to not doing something to drive her into the arms of another man. Talk to her...appologize and see if you can fix it...save the marriage before she stays with the other man! Fight for her!

Answer 7

Yes, if she is not happy you have to sit her down and have a heart to heart talk about what does she want and can you provide her with it and will you be happy doing it. If you love her you have to communicate and this is the biggest step in our lives to not only be happy with ourselves but make our partners happy too. Ask her what you are doing wrong and know in your heart if you can fix it, if you can't you need to end the relationship and move on with your life, its the biggest decision you will ever make.
Take care Heather

Answer 8

That is a highly inconsiderate and insensitive threat to make to a man. Only you can tell what kind of person she is normally. And it also depends on how you handle yourself in response to verbal attacks. Are you volatile or deliberate?

Answer 9

Obviously she wasn't mature enough to be married. Vows are supposed to mean something. I suggest you either find a good marriage counseler or a good lawyer!

Oh yeah and people who threaten things like that have more than likley already done it or they wouldn't so casually throw it out there. she is probably looking for an excuse to justify her actions.

Answer 10

You need to give more info...if this is even true. what could you have possibly done. The only thing that would somewhat justify this is if you had an affair and I still don't think that would be a good idea.