this crazy girl asked me to prom 3 times. i know it takes a lot of guts for a girl to ask a guy out, but i really dont like her cuz shes cucu n i already gotta girlfriend n all that. all 3 times i told her no n everytime i tell her no, she starts crying. shes says things like, "but its prom! u have no soul!" n sum other **** like that. n last year she tried to kill herself for watever reason, n she cuts herself still, so i dont wanna hurt her feelings n then later on find out she jumped out the window.
how do i say no n tell her she got no chance wit me without her killing herself?
2007-02-10 10:05:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell this girl that you and your girlfriend have plans that night. If something happens it's her own doing and you should not feel any responsibility due to her history of self abuse.
2007-02-10 10:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE you a player? If the answer is yes, then you don't want to lie to these girls. So do you date more than one girl at once, or flirt with lots of girls when you are on a date? If yes, try and change this. Really be interested in the people you choose to date. If you really like the girl, you should find yourself forgetting about all those other girls, really hot or not. If you aren't, you need to prove that to these girls by showing them. Maybe hang out with them as friends for a while, and flirt with THAT ONE GIRL and make THAT ONE GIRL feel special. Not including the other 6 girls in the room. Good luck!
2016-05-25 04:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already did tell her no.
If she does not get it that is one of her many problems.
If she jumps out the window, that is NOT your problem.
Dont lead her on! Send her a note and tell her that you cannot go as it would not be fair to your current girlfriend.
IF she does not like it let her counselor address that
NOT YOUR PROBLEM
p.s. if you have caller Id
when she calls, DONT ANSWER!
2007-02-10 10:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by onestepbeyond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her you have a girlfriend? If not, tell her that. If she knows, explain to her that you really value your relationship with your girlfriend and going to prom with her would be a breach of trust in your relationship. Don't make it about her, make it about you and your other relationships/commitments. Tell her you're flattered she asked, but that you simply can't.
2007-02-10 10:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by wonderer152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in most cases cutters don't kill themselves...they do it to release their own pain and/or to make people feel sorry for them. I myself was a cutter and the times I "attempted" to commit suicide i really didn't have any intentions on following through with it. Just tell her you don't mean to make her feel bad but you have a girlfriend. Tell her you have no interests in her what so ever and to please leave you alone.
2007-02-10 10:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she has a lot bigger problems then you not being her prom date.... dont worry about it she needs to learn how to handle rejection just dont be a jerk about it... and dont tell her in front of a bunch of people... or anyone for that matter
2007-02-10 10:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by HH72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your girl friend need to speak to her directly but no mean words. Just let her know you are taken.
2007-02-10 11:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you cannot go because something came up and then just go with your girlfriend, better tell her before she buys her dress, if she sees you at prom say you got to go after all.
2007-02-10 10:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by sara69251 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's just trying to get attention,if she was really going to kill herself she would've done it by now.
2007-02-10 10:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her hey your;re cool and all but i already asked someone else five months ago.
2007-02-10 10:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋