hi, okay, im 16 years old and u could say i like huys...a lot, but recently ive been thinking for a while, when i looks at girls, i dunno something happens...it feels weird, does this mean im bi? or lesbian? ive never had a boyfriend either and u could say that im a little tomboy but i dont think that matters, i find that girls attract me at times, im so confused though! HELP ME PLEASE, and i thought about it for a while so im not ready to tell my mom after im fully sure about, even though sometimes i wanna tell her, is it just a stage im going through? okay thank you!
2007-02-10 10:02:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
it doesnt really mean ur lesbian it just means ur curious and if u like both then ur probly bi the most important thing is to forget wats taboo just go for what you think is right and if anyone gets in your way move them out of it
2007-02-10 10:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by dmitripimpbody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In todays world will all the hype of same sex encounters.....a teen would be confused....i think everyone goes through stages of finding the same gender attractive....i really think more so on the female side. But bi, gay, leasbian, hetero....these are sexual choices. If you have never had a sexual encounter...then you are a virgin.....if with a boy...then hetero.....and so on. You will become the choices that you make. Not the other way around.
2007-02-10 18:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by gluckstadt_randy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on how you "like" guys and girls.
If you have a feeling of wanting them sexually (both genders), it might be the fact that you are bisexual which is absolutely nothing wrong about it.
If you have a feeling of wanting females as the same, it would be considered as a lesbian.
Nothing wrong about it. Try researching up the difference between lesbian and bi and see if it applies to what you're feeling.
2007-02-10 18:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find girls to be attractive then you may be bi-curious. You are not "bi" unless you have been with another girl. There is nothing wrong with this btw. Girls are hot and so are guys. You can enjoy both. As far as mentioning this to your mom, just be prepared for her maybe being upset, but hopefully she will take it ok.
2007-02-10 18:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♥eLizAbEtH♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, you're 16 and going through all these emotions and trying to find your way in life. my best guess is that you're bi, but it's completely possible that you're straight. give it a while before you tell your mom- you don't want to go through all the trouble just to find it was a passing phase.
2007-02-10 18:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by blondgirl324 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offence but maybe u had a hard time finding a boyfriend that ur mind started looking for other options
2007-02-10 18:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by Meditator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you have a desire to be with a girl. If you do, then yes, you are probably bi. Your still young so it could just be a phase, but it never hurts to experiment. mostly in college.
"What happens in college, stays in college."
2007-02-10 18:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Bored Much 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're fine the majority of people your age start to have feelings like that. I did and its antural to be curious. Its nothing to be ashamed of but if it comes down to a label it sounds like you're bi not gay since you like both.
2007-02-10 18:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by hotmamainmi1982 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you'll find out before too long all by it self, so don't worry too much! If you wanted to find out for sure there is always the sure-fire way of trying it to see if it's what is for you or just a felling, well hope everything works out.
2007-02-10 18:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by j0kr420 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It could be that you're just young and curious or you could actually be bisexual. Only time and exploring/accepting your feelings will tell what your sexuality really is.
2007-02-11 00:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋