We were at a party last night, and she left with the guy I liked for an hour. She came back, and I was pretty mad, but finally I got over it.
I woke up this morning however to learn that she didn't come back last night, and that she slept with the guy.
What do you do? She doesn't see the problem, and I am at a loss!
2007-02-10 10:01:44 · 22 answers · asked by lots.ofquestions 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sleep with her brother or Dad, that will really fix her....Come on what kind of real Friend would do that? You need better friends, and not one like her.
2007-02-10 10:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The only reason your at a loss is because she beat you to him. Even if shes' your friend maybe the guy was interested in her and not you. Or else he just wanted to make it with her and probably won't anymore. But maybe now he will try to make it with you too. But don't let him because he is probably just trying to sleep with anybody. but you and your friend shouldn't be mad at each other. You weren't going out with him and she took the oppurtunity to get some for herslef so don't worry there's more guys out there. Oh and next time don't tell anyone you have a crush on somebody see what it got you this time. SO want to chat Im me anytime
2007-02-10 18:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me but I was the one that slept with the guy MY best friend said she would like to be with. Of course the whole story went more like him and I were seeing each other weeks before she told me in private she was thinking about hitting on him. I should have told her right then that him and I were seeing each other secretly but I didn't 1) because he was married, 2) she was married, 3) she had always said she would never cheat on her husband and I really really thought she was just infatuated with this guy, 4) I didn't want to have to justify to anyone why I was seeing a married man, and the honest truth...5) I was ashamed to admit to anyone, even my best friend that I was seeing a married man. When she found out him and I were seeing each other and for how long I thought she would never talk to me again, but time and a lot of giving her some space she forgave me, we are not best friends any more, just friends and I really miss being with her. Never let a guy/man come between you and your BEST friend, guys come and go in our lives but a BEST friend is harder to replace
2007-02-10 18:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... flashback. This happened to me in high school. Long story short... I've never forgotten what she did... and we are not friends. The boy I liked later told me that she had deliberately slept with him so that I wouldn't have him in my life. We stayed friends (the boy and I) ....but never linked up romantically. So she, in essence, changed the course of my life.
I don't have regrets about how my life turned out....but I often wonder if he and I would have wound up together if she hadn't stepped over that boundary.
Bottom line - she is NOT your best friend. She slept with him out of resentment, or to prove that she is better than you, or to show you how much power she has. You confided in her your feelings for a boy.... it is the law of friendship that you don't mess with your best friend's man, crush, or husband. end of story. Get a new best friend and be thankful that you found out what sort of respect she has for you NOW and not years later when she might go after your husband!!!!
2007-02-10 18:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alls fair in love and war.....she'e not your friend if she did that on purpose.......now the part you didnt mention is did you tell her that was the guy you had a crush on after she came back with the guy.......or did she know he was your crush long before that night...you have to clarify that.......maybe she also had a crush on him and never told you since you had told her first the very same thing........next time don't mention to anyone that you have a crush on someone, because they might also........information is power and you got played by your so called best friend because you opened your mouth.........she struck first.....sorry
2007-02-10 18:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by fox mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the guy left with her and not you that means that he liked her and not you so there sould not be a problem with her or so you should not change with her is just that the guy was atracted to your friend and not you...now if there was ever sex betweent you and the guy that woulded be a total deffernt history.or maybe she gave him what he was looking for and you know what i mean and if he ask you for that and you did not give it to him then he was gonna take what ever is abalable to him at that moment....
2007-02-10 18:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Latin Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy that you like doesn't like you so there is no problem there. As for your friend, she isn't really a friend so no problem there either. What's your problem again?
2007-02-10 23:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lonely Bàstard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a jerk and not worth the trouble. It really sucks that they would just meet and run off together, you should find nicer people, you deserve better, Good Luck!
2007-02-10 18:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by sassy s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Time for a new best friend, I believe. Find one who repsects you and loves you. This one obviously DOESNT. Good luck.
2007-02-10 18:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by "Corey" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feed her some chocolate Ex-Lax and tell her it was a piece of a Hershey's bar and then I would wait 5 minutes and watch her crap her pants....GOOD TIMES!!
2007-02-10 18:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋