my friend competes with me she copies whatever i do like i play violin and she said she was vgoing to start playing and be better than me then i model/act and she starts what can i do to stop her
2007-02-10 09:48:55 · 14 answers · asked by christina y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do something u hate and then stop,,or pretend ur gay and stop or slap the hell out of her or but a pony and name it ringo
2007-02-10 09:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by islandofmudo 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You know when people copy you, it's the best compliment you can get. It means you are a leader and inspire people to better themselves. That's another way to look at it. On the other hand, if it bothers you, I guess you should ask her why she's doing it? I think you should just carry on with what you enjoy doing. If she's doing it just to copy you, then it won't last long. She'll stop before too long if she's not really interested or talented in those areas. If this turns into a competition, then remember that there is only 1 you. You are unique in every way, so no one can ever be just like you. BTW, I would be careful with her as a "friend" since you don't feel like you can trust her.
2007-02-10 18:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to her. The stuff in shows, where you do something stupid and then stop, it doesn't work. This is real life. You have to talk to her. I know this might not be something you want to do, but go to the school guidance counseler. Tell him/her the problem, and maybe they can talk to her for you. If you ask the counseler to, they might not use your name. You know say to your friend, I noticed you've been copying this person, and then they will have a chat. Good luck!
2007-02-10 18:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by sugarsnap335 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being her friend. You can't win with people like that. I've had two girlfriends over the years do that to me. One was always trying to top whatever I did. Whenever I would talk about an accomplishment, somehow by the time she was done talking to me I was totally deflated by what she had done. The other one was a little twisted. She started sleeping with my ex-boyfriends and told me about their conversations about me.
2007-02-10 17:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend isn't really 'evil' but she is very 'insecure' ... and by 'imitating everything you do' and saying that she can 'do better' she is simply trying to prove to herself that she's 'as good as you are' ... so why don't you find some 'really nice things' that you can tell her about what she does that you would 'never even try' because she's 'so good at them' ... and if that doesn't work, then I'd simply 'drop her' and find some new friends.
2007-02-10 18:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's always trying to compete with you, then she's not really your friend. Move on to some real friends but first tell her why. If she stops doing that then forgive her and be friends again. If she starts again...GOODBYE !!
2007-02-10 17:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by BRAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being her friend! Or just talk about the situation and see where she's coming from. Explain how you feel and then maybe you figure it out!
2007-02-10 17:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probly does this because she admires you. Or she is jealous of you. She thinks you are so amazing so she wants to be better. You should copy her and then she will stop.
2007-02-10 17:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kinka 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop her. Go on and do your thing. Excel in everything you do she will eventually take a different road than you are.
2007-02-10 22:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do things you know she hates or just stop hanging around her as much so she don't know the the activities you are taking part in
2007-02-10 17:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by sara69251 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh sure.... evil friend...u can do something that u know she wont do like eat a tampon or something if u eat one and she does to she defenitely has a problem and that means she's truly evil
ps.lol
2007-02-10 17:55:33 · answer #11 · answered by victornope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋