Just got back from a business trip, about 9 weeks, wife just had a early miscarriage, doesnt seem upset by it, and on our computer history she was just checking symptoms of STD's... Not sure what to think if anything.
2007-02-10 09:26:43 · 10 answers · asked by john l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just ask her what is going on...
I think that once you ask her what she was researching STDs for...you can judge her answer to see if you should be concerned...you can tell if she is being honest or not....
but just to speculate is too stressful to you...and it doesn't give her a chance to be honest...
2007-02-10 09:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by LIFECOACH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't been home in 9 weeks, why is she looking up STD's on the Internet? Nowadays, things are as what they seem. Don't take a chance of contracting something, and come to her with it. It can only be good, if only for your health and welfare.
Sit down and talk about how she feels about you being away for so long. It may be best if you all cease this relationship, before anything else goes wrong.
Good luck!
2007-02-10 17:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dragonman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could very well be having feelings .if you didnt find out a reason for the miscarriage well you said you just got back from a business trip which means you arent always home maybe she's thinking your having an affair and she's looking up std's to see which one causes miscarriages i think you should sit down and talk to her you both could be having the same feelings and in the long run if the problems isnt addresed it could cause future problems.
2007-02-10 17:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by katie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to her openly and both get tested... If it turns out she was tested after the miscarriage and knows she has one, then it is time for you both to discuss how she got it... I assume that by your asking, you are sure it could not have come from you... No matter which one of you (or now both) have it, you will need to let any others possibly exposed know.
About the miscarriage... she may be in shock. Everyone handles loss differently. Good luck.
2007-02-13 19:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her!! Why would you wait. STD, hmmm, what a nice home coming present. Maybe she thinks you're doing it and she is looking up symptoms, just incase she contracts something after you make love to her. ????????? You should ask, the worry and mistrust will lead you to feel less about yourself and that could lead to her having affairs right under your nose.
2007-02-10 17:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by inkinheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about it. It could be any number of things. She thinks your cheating, she is cheating, a friend thinks they have an STD and she was researching it, etc.
2007-02-10 17:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting freaky over nothing. I sometimes look up different things on the net and doesn't mean i have them, plus, why were you checking the history? did you check the cookies, too? Jeez, if you don't trust her, ask, if you don't like what she says, leave.
2007-02-10 17:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by dianabarff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would approach her in a calm manner and watch her answer closely.. Once flinch and I would go off the deep end... Cheating is one thing, but when you bring your trash in my house I got a huge problem... I am sorry if she cheating on you kick her out... That's what we would tell her if you were cheating on her... Why should it be different because the female is cheating
2007-02-10 17:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sympathies on your Loss! Walk easy, my Friend! Give it a little time.And ask her nicely. Good Luck.
2007-02-10 17:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't accuse her of anything, yet. Talk to her casually, if she becomes so defensive, then... what you've been thinking might be right.
2007-02-10 17:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋