There is a person in my high school that is very shy. He never talks to no one only when he needs to. When I try to talk to him he has a very gentle soft voice. I have only talked to him a few times and he is a very smart person. When I talked to him he gets very shy and sometimes blushs( I caught him steering at me a few times all ready). Once I had to do a project and he manipulated the project like nothing it was impressive. At first I thought I had a failure team because I said to myself no communication skills. It turns out that I didn’t do anything. He never gets mad he looks very calm.
I’m curious why he doesn’t talk a lot?
I kind of like him, how should I express my love to a shy gentleman?(with out the whole tight pants)
How should I try to talk to him? Or how should I approach him?
What should I be aware?
Why are people so shy?
How can I open up a shy person ?
Are quiet people always this smart ?
2007-02-10 09:21:59 · 7 answers · asked by nosenseatall1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you like him then you should keep trying to talk to him and get to know him better. Start with friendship and work into love. Since he is so shy he will prob. fall for you pretty quickly. Some people are shy because they have been hurt by people in their past. Or maybe had a bad home life so they shut the whole world off. Or they could just like being by themselves. The best way to get a shy person or ANY person for that matter to open up is if you open up to them. Become closer with him and share some of yourself with him, in time he will share himself with you.
hahaha and are quiet people always this smart? hahaha, i dunno, but i guess if you are shy you don't have a much of a social life so it's either be a pervert or superbrain.
2007-02-10 09:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by laangel464 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha ok... from this quiet person, you can never open up a shy person. Only they can do that. What you can do is make them feel safe with you and valued by you. Keep trying to talk to him. Maybe ask if he'd like to get together and study some time, or ask for help if something in one of your classes confuses you. Talk about what you have in common - that can start with school and as you find out more about him, it can branch out. Then maybe ask if he'd like to get together outside of school and do something. Take it step by step. He's probably got certain things he's very comfortable with (like probably school, maybe computers or something, I don't know) and if you can get him talking about something he's interested in, he'll probably go on and on and on. Be open and friendly, but don't try to push him into talking. He will when he's ready.
2007-02-10 17:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by wonderer152 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
welll one day if u get a chance to be alone with him u shud just ask him whats up and then start a conversation and ask why are u so shy? u seem to have a great personality and i think that pretty cool. stuff like that. u shud just compliment him about his project and everything..just get to kno him!!
but like i said..just talk to him any chance hes not around alotta ppl.
and if it dosent work cooking up a whole conversation the first time u really talk to him, just talk to him a lil bit every day..soon ull develop a great friendship that may lead to love
hope this advice helps
2007-02-10 17:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I myself i am shy person it could be that he like you just has hard time acting on the feeling.
About opening him up just keep talking to him and try spending more time with him.
Taht should help him
2007-02-10 17:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by RLC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as for quiet people being smart, yeah most of the time they are.
me being shy , it usually takes me a while (like months) to open up to people, it's a trust issue with me, i'm not saying he has trust issues though. if he's as shy as i use to be just take things slow with him, i wasn't sure what to do around a girl until i was in my twenties
2007-02-10 17:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by sexy joker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Beware, this guys is going to shoot allot of postal employees someday
2007-02-10 17:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by mycatsdead 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋
Formula to remember: Shy Equals Insecure. See if that fits!
2007-02-10 17:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 9⤋