I mean are you truly, honestly happy with who you are and what you are doing? When you are fulfilling your sexual desire with another woman, does that make you feel good & contented or does that make you feel you know...sinful and depressed. I don't have any lesbian friends and I can't ask anyone but someone out there that wants us straight ladies to know & understand YOU.
2007-02-10 08:53:08 · 12 answers · asked by Debs 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I can tell you this much. When I used to be with men I never felt content. I always felt so empty inside. Being with a woman is just what my soul desires and needs. And no, I do not feel sinful or depressed. A lot of people try very hard to make us feel this way tho.
Oh, and nothing ever happened to me. No man ever hurt me or abused me in any way. Which is what a lot of people think "turned us this way".
2007-02-10 09:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by TheOriginalSin♥ 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 13 years and was misserable(had two children by him)then went to another relationship and was un-happy with him..Now i have been with a woman for the last 4 years..Its a better relationship all around comincation wise!!..I look at it like this it has NOTHING to do with anything other then loving who you love period!!!..since I have been with a man before does that make me bi- or am i a lesbian now that I am with a woman...well obviosly I am with nor do I want a man so many people say well you are a lesbian..I think true lesbians are Born that way..I just love who I love!
2007-02-15 08:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by kim w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing made me "become" a lesbian. Now I know I will sound like a lot of other people saying this, but I was born this way. For example, someone being born with brown hair, or green eyes. I was not treated badly, nor was I ever raped. About two years ago I realized that there were girls out there, and then I found that I started to like them, and so on.
2016-05-25 04:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything made me become a lesbian. I went though puberty. I was attracted to women. I acted on it.
I've never once felt sinful or depressed about being a lesbian. I love sex with women. I love my partner. I find our relationship rewarding and fulfilling.
Honestly, I'm really glad I'm a lesbian. I can have all the sex I want and I'll never get pregnant plus I am at a lower risk for STDS, particularly AIDS.
2007-02-12 13:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by Salek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but I am married and happy. I did kiss two differrant girls when I was in elementary school. One was in second grade. We did get in to trouble because we were screwing around in the bathroom(kissing and feeling each other up) and then again when I was in 5th grade. This one girl who was black turned on me and she was feeling me through my clothes and I was enjoying it. And we both managed to get into the bathroom and kiss as well. it went no further.
I guess i've always been attracted to women. Even my husband believes i am a lesbian and I try to deny it, but I don't think I can. I have beenwith other guys before I was married but I don't think I will be "satisfied" until I make love to another woman. And I do look at lesbian porn. But I am not addicted to it. I even watched the movie D.E.B.S. and it had two of the characters kissing.
Those of us who are a lesbian or think we are shouldn't deny ourselves.
The bad part is I am a Christian and it is against my religion, but I can't deny it anymore-I AM A LESBIAN!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 02:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by deb2rule 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sodding yawn!!!!
Every day the same question!
I was born a lesbian!
Yes, I am happy!
Yes, it feels good!
No, I do not feel sinful or depressed!
Now, please answer all the same questions about being straight. Does it feel sinful?
HANG ON!! Spicatt copies my answer (that bit is OK - I take it as a compliment, and anyway she looks cute) and gets TWO thumbs-up, while I only get ONE? How does that work? Did it just sound better the second time around?
ANYWAY, I am sorry if I offended the asker - but this question really has been asked on here a thousand times. And, to be honest, when words like "sinful" are used, I have to question the motive behind the question.
SHALIE, PLEASE contact me if you want a serious discussion.
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2007-02-10 09:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by abetterfate 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
First of all I was not born one, I do believe some people are born gay but I am not one of them. I am this way because the person I just happened to fall in love with is a female. I am not attracted to other females and still think guys are cute I just have no desire to be with a guy, or another girl for that matter. I only like one girl and that is the one I fell in love with. I am a little confusing because I am not the norm. She started out my best friend since we were younger, we grew up together went through bad relationships with other guys together (became roommates) and just one day decided we wanted to give up dating guys and just be exclusive. Of course our relationship progressed through the years of our friendship before we came to this conclusion. But she was the only one that could make me happy, the only one I trusted myself with and the only one I could give my whole heart to. does this make since? Yes I am happy, happier than ever in fact. I don't feel depressed or bad about something that makes me happy. I am not going to tell my family because they would not understand and I see no since in getting them upset. And yes I am sexually just fine, there are lots of toys to help with that. Hope this helps.
2007-02-12 05:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Indiana Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, yawning again
I was born this way, it's normal to me.
It's not all about sex, but if you want to know I don't feel depressed nor sinful. LOL what a hoot you are. being straight do you feel depressed and sinful for making love to your partner? I am so tired of these questions. Go to a gay bar, make some friends, actually you probably have gay friends you work with but have no clue cuz you stereotype them like everything else in your life.
2007-02-14 23:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by princess4dude 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there s a person who was almost abused (saved her *** from the border of being abused) but feeling guilty because of what happened (as if it were her fault) kept herself asexual, and then lately (very lately) discovered bisexuality..she feels more comfortable that way..But the above mentioned comments are more common and more healthy..Psychological problems may result in a fobic reaction against men but i believe this is just a small portion of the reasons behind homosexuality.
2007-02-10 10:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by ddyk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have always known that i wanted...nope...desired to be with girls since i was a kid. when i entered highschool i made a decision to be straight, never dated however, but it never bothered me. When i got into college i started dating men, and lots of them....but eventually i fell inlove with a girl. i wanted to fight it off but i knew that i couldn't so i succumbed. after my first girl i had another boyfriend (funny...he turned out to be gay hahahaha) that was when i had a second girlfriend. while i was with my second girl, i dated a male friend of mine. my intention was not to hurt, mind you. i really loved them both. after this last guy i had a series of girlfriends and they were all happy relationships. they just needed to end. now i am with my girlfriend of 3 years. i still find men attractive but i really prefer the company of girls. there you go, whyat happened? i just fell inlove and decided that i wanted to be happy (gay if you must!)
2007-02-14 21:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by leinesworld 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋