Ok,so..There is this guy and i met him through a friend we go to a diff school and everything,he gave me his phone number and stuff,lol.well we talk every single day on aim,and everytime i sign off or return from away he always ims me first and like we talk for hours...but the prob is im afraid to call him.what do you think?
2007-02-10 08:48:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
and well i was #4 on his myspace then one night his friend IMs me and is like *he* is so lucky,and to try and play it off i go "we are just friends" then the next day i was number 12 and well later he IMED me as usual and started talking to me,and then he moved me back up to #7.and somtimes he doesnt always IM me first,is that a test to see if ill IM him please help with this whole sitution!
2007-02-10 09:07:25 · update #1
This guy is soo into you, but give him your number and let him make that first move. Let me tell you a little secret the more you let them run after you the more they want you ;) So, I say let him make the first move and just sit back and relax!
2007-02-10 08:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by Amy ;) 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are just being jittery. He hasnt tried to visit your bedroom in the middle of the night, right? He isnt physically stalking you anywhere, correct? Then he is probably a nice guy. You can call and chat with your girlfriends all day long. Give him a call as well. Guys like to talk too - although he may be more comfortable with talking thru the net instead. While you have him on IM, ask him if it's okay to call, and if he says "yes" then go ahead and do so. Maybe it will be nice to chat via the phone once in a while, but be better on the net or in person. You have to see.
Take a chance.
2007-02-10 16:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by MrKnowItAll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is completely obvious. HE LIKES YOU. He might be afraid to ask you out though, so he either wants you to make the first move OR he is overwhelmed that he even gets to be you regular friend. He doesn't want to totally ruin what you guys have. It isnt bad to make the first move especially when he seems to be hinting so much.
2007-02-10 17:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by ..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he IMs you, give him your phone number, and ask him to call. It's about time to see how he speaks--you already know how he types. Don't call him first--let him do the phone thing.
How do you know what number you are on his IM list? How can you tell when he changes it?
2007-02-10 17:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him. He'll be happy to have a girl call him. I was happy when my now girlfriend called me for the first time. At the time I was depressed and suicidal, I thought that all women hated me, because some girls kicked me out of their friendship. I felt alone, like a loser. I thought maybe they would feel sorry for me, if maybe I was dead. But then that girl called me, and I now and going out with her. So one call can save a life. But I didn't answer your question, call him and he will like you. Also this would seem strange, but who ever reads this please call or talk to someone different, it could save their life. thanks.
2007-02-10 17:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by legal stan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him! Why should you have to summon the courage to call him? Next time you are chatting on-line, ask him to give you a call.
2007-02-10 17:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.
2007-02-10 16:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Road Dogâ?¢ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Horrible advice. Way to go and try to set someone up for failure in future non highschool relationships. retard.
2007-02-10 16:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by slacker3153 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good lord, I agree with Amy's answer above, but
gosh, don't let him suffer too much! :o)
2007-02-10 16:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Siddy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋