i don't know why! can anyone help me? i'm very unsatisfyed!
2007-02-10 08:46:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
because ... he's more interested in his physical wants and needs than yours ... you need a man, not a boi ... i could help
2007-02-10 08:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
This is a guy that only cares about himself.
Make him do you first or he doesn't get any! If he says he's gonna' go with someone else, let him. You can always go to the "man tree" and pick one off of there just for yourself. That's right. I just wrote that men grow on trees! If one doesn't do you good, then just throw him out and go get yourself a better one next time. In the rich girl's slang, you can just say that you're 'tradin' up.' That's all there is to it!
2007-02-10 08:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Hoolia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women have an enzyme that gives the extra energy after sex but guys has another enzyme that puts them to sleep after sex. If you want more, you'll have to keep him interested long enough to fulfill your needs as well. My ex had never climaxed a day in her life until on night after sex, I continued to please her orally and with my hands. She damn near came off the bed and at first said she didn't like that but within just a few minutes she told me that she got really dizzy and lost all of her strength but then she wanted to do it all again.
That was the best night of my while marriage.
2007-02-10 09:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does it because he can do it. He may or may not realize how frustrating it is for you. It's up to you to tell him how terrible it is for you. I'd tell him if I could but can't. These things are ideally two-way, mutually supportive relationships and if he can't or won't join you you may need to either find another way to get release or find someone who will be more considerate. If he knows what he's doing, he's VERY inconsiderate. If he doesn't know what he's doing, he needs to find out soon. Some guys would be sensitive enough and care enough to know that you are unsatisfied without being told.
2007-02-10 08:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's because he only sees you as a means to an end which just happens to be his own satisfaction someone that cared about you would not let this happen,you say he want's to quit after he cums that is because that is all he cares about HIMSELF ditch him and find someone who is not so selfish.
2007-02-10 10:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by flossypants 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well first of all i know were your coming from because iv'e been in that type of situation numerouse times. what i did to solve that problem was to have him give me oral sex before we actuaLLY had sex. That way if he sucks at rocking the d*ck, he can give me my pleasure then get his. if oral is not your thing then buy a vibrator. it will solve ur problems and might just get him off at the same time. :)
2007-02-10 09:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by justina mendez 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..ummm..I really don't know why...but if a guy loves u..while having sex..he shouldn't keep u hanging that way..but I understand he gets weak..so can't blame him.So what u should do...try giving yourself more action together with him.Try watching blues..and learn all the body moments,action,they're giving the guy.That's what guys like, body moment.while doing so..maybe u will come together with him...come on..its the love u guys sharing..the feeling..And if that continues,maybe the love between u guys r not so strong..that he come..so quick.Hope that help..chow.
2007-02-10 08:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by Annabella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically, we teach people (consciously or subconsciously) how to treat us. So, he does it because you continue to let him do it. Tell him how disatisfied you are. He will either be astounded and then be able to make amends or he won't care and you can ditch him. You do need to speak to him first up and then go from there. How terrible to be treated like that and to not voice your feelings of neglect. Smile, you sound like a really nice person. Sadness will only make you frown and give you wrinkles!!!
PEACE & LOVE & ALL THAT
2007-02-10 08:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Minx 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Guys are like shotguns- shoot once and then stop to reload. They're not semi- automatics that can keep firing as long as you're pulling the trigger over and over.
Quit worrying about yourself! Besides, you should be married first if you're having sex...
2007-02-10 08:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
lol MEN i was told to get a woman to finish the job or yourself there u go I SAY KARMA IS A ***** i had a boyfirend to do that so right before he came i would get up and tell him know you know who it fells try it he will work harder to please you once he is left high and dry
2007-02-10 08:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by wsurea97 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have him put on a cock ring-it helps prolong erections so that he can stay hard longer!
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2007-02-10 10:46:27 · answer #11 · answered by Sydney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋