everything was burnt in her house including her dog and cat. her families safe but she lost everything! all her clothes and everything is gone. i want to know how to help but i dont know if giving her clothes and money would make her feel like shes poor and needs it since im not that good of friends what her, i dont know how she would accept it.
what should i do to help??
2007-02-10 08:37:51 · 9 answers · asked by steph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No I think that helping her out with money and gifts would be much appreciated. Put yourself in her shoes. You would really need the help. Also be there to help her out in other ways too. She is gonna need a shoulder to cry on.
See if you can get the priest or minister at your church/synagogue to take up a separate collection for her.
2007-02-10 08:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that money would be a good idea. That way she can go get things that she needs. Also if you have nice clothes that you don't need anymore that might fit someone in the family I'm sure that would be apreciated also. Around here when someones home burns down the whole community comes together to make sure the family has things to get them started again. It would probably make her feel worse if she felt like nobody cared enough to help.
2007-02-10 08:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by precious1too 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 22:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her whatever you can. sometimes people need help in life. it is not a sign of weakness it is just something that happens that people do not expect and is one of the unfortunate things that can happen in a persons life. help her out when you can and try to be there for her in any way you can. sometimes being a friend can mean more than anything out there in the world. you two could develope a wonderful friendship as a result of this. i think that it is wonderful that you are stepping up and helping her out of this situation. that is very honorable of you. most people would have just told her tough luck and went on. it is hard to believe that there are people out there that would do that but trust me there are. she won't feel like she is poor, she will feel like she is rich because of your friendship. you are a great person for doing this and the world is a better place because of people like you. keep up the great work. good luck.
2007-02-10 08:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a few more of her friends and try to arrange a sausage sizzle to raise money for her and her family. I'm sure that they would be very grateful under the circumstances.
2007-02-10 08:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite them over to your house for dinner. If you wear the same size, ask her if she wants to try on some of your clothes and borrow them for a while. Lots of girls do this anyway, just for fun.
2007-02-10 08:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were her, I wouldn't want my friends to give me things. It would make me feel looked down upon.
Just be by her side and help her if she asks for help.
2007-02-10 08:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her in a friendly manner what she needs most, and assure her that you are more than willing to help, but afraid not to hurt her feelings ...
2007-02-10 08:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that if she needs your help you are there for her but don't give anything unless she asks for them because that would make her feel poor.
2007-02-10 08:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋