I know my best friend is just looking out for me, but I feel she might unintentionally be sabatoging what could be a relationship. The guy I'm seeing is best friends with her best guy friend. So she tells me everything. Everything she's said so far is really not that bad but, she just keeps telling me to drop him. Having me know all this stuff makes me want to forget about him, but then I'll feel like maybe it's just because she's making him look negative in my eyes. What do you think.. P.S. she also hates her best guy friend's girl friend. We all think it's because she has no one and wants everyone to be the same situation..
2007-02-10 08:36:59 · 7 answers · asked by ciao 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wouldn't do anything until you know from him what's going on. Never believe it until you hear it come from his mouth.
2007-02-10 08:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets just say that I have been in that same exact situation you are in right now.....But most of the stuff dont believe what shes telling you yeah it might be true but just remember why you like him in the first place.....I know she doesnt mean it intentionally but she just doesnt wanna see you getting hurt. Trust me I know what this feels like and I wish I was still in that relationship.....
2007-02-10 08:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of your gay acquaintances are extraordinarily jealous which you have this great element going with your boyfriend. and that they'd prefer to work out you smash up -- the two to furnish them a gamble at him, and to cofirm their theory that no one ever has a stable relationship. There are some pal, genuine acquaintances, which you will communicate approximately your united statesand downs with. and then there are people who don't have relationships themselves, or have depressing ones, who're by no ability happy if one in each of their acquaintances is in a stable one. Your girlfriends understand that considering you're the two gay, they don't have a gamble with the two of you besides. and intensely some women persons see gay men as very romantic -- love against the percentages and all that. (lots of girls persons write gay romance--a number of them o.k..) some het women persons are purely as b*tchy as your acquaintances--I actual have one acquaintance (do no longer prefer to call her a chum) who's constantly predicting that relationships will smash up. they frequently do no longer, yet she's by no ability been waiting to discover all of us, so she in basic terms looks happy while different persons smash up. refer to the persons who attempt that should assist you save your relationship collectively, and don't air your grimy laundry to those that will use it against you. i've got been with my spouse for over 10 years and that's worked nicely for me.
2016-09-28 22:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your friend is.... Bi.. thats why she only watching u and has no boyfriend and she hate the friend of youf bf.. what do u think.. u know her better than us here u know her personality just watch her move to see is to believe..
2007-02-10 08:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is just jealous because she doesn't have a boyfriend or maybe she just feels left out because you are spending more time with your boyfriend
2007-02-10 08:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it helps her feel better /c then it makes her feel as if u dont have much more than she does, if she cant have it she doesnt want anyone to either
2007-02-10 08:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, she might confused herself taking friendship for love or vice versa ...do not judge her hard ...
2007-02-10 08:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋