He/she says they need their personal space and would just prefer at least seperate beds, even if it's in the same room.
2007-02-10 08:35:15 · 13 answers · asked by blondgirl324 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well this may sound outrageous now honey, but trust me you'll thank him after a few years. I've been married for 10 years, and I'd give anything for a good night's rest in my own bed!!
2007-02-10 09:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by K-dog 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's wrong with that? Your fiancee is a very wise person by not wanting to sleep in the same room, even if you are in different beds. He knows that it would be too tempting for him to stay away from you, because after all, you are in love, right? You should respect his wishes and respect him for having the self-control and the leadership to make a moral stand in a hard situation when it would be so easy for him just to give in and throw away everything he has worked for and accomplished since the day he hit puberty. When you all get married, you can be together every single night for the rest of your lives. That's, like, approximately 50 to 80 years of gettin' it on... and on...and on... and on.... How long is it to your wedding date anyway? Like 9 or 10 months? It's really not that long. Seriously.
2007-02-10 17:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by waltzorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By living together to you mean shacking up before marriage, or when you move in together after the wedding?
After the wedding, I'd say no thanks, no wedding. If a person needs space, stay single and live alone.
2007-02-10 16:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sharing the bed in one of the nicest things in a relationship.
2007-02-10 16:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Cal Kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would not bother me personally as i feel that sex should wait until after marriage and i also feel that living together before marriage is wrong too and immoral.
2007-02-10 17:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does not work.....after awhile you're wondering why you didn't just get a room mate. And they don't spend your money and fight with you...well, usually.
2007-02-10 16:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by anneboz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sort of just like being room mates. I wouldnt be able to handle it!
2007-02-10 16:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by one_thing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha! i think that's funny...did he really request that? ridiculous having separate beds...twin beds would be even more ridiculous. curious. peace
2007-02-10 16:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry we are married we sleep together!
2007-02-10 18:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's retarded...say the wedding is off
2007-02-10 16:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by ksnaucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋