Every boy in the whole school is in love with this mean girl, but she acts all nice around them and then will all of the girls she acts mean......she also goes out with everyone's bf after she makes them break up...should i start a rumor about her and destroy her or not??
2007-02-10 08:28:10 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not a rumor. Spread the truth.
2007-02-10 08:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to stoop to her level then by all means knock yourself silly. Just know that what goes around comes around.
The truth no matter what will always prevail and reveal it self. Lie if you want to. Don't be surprised if you end up looking like the laughing stock.
If you spread truth you will look like a gossip and who wants to be friends with a person they know has a big mouth.
Mind your own business and live life. If everyone else is shallow and falls under her spell just walk by and laugh it off.
Why would you want sloppy seconds? Furthermore, why would you EVER want to be with a guy who obviously has a lack in judgement?
Grow up and you'll come out the winner. Not like the shallow masses.
Kind Regards,
Jennifer
2007-02-10 16:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by JNM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't ruin or destroy her infact it could backfire and make her look like the victim and you like the mean girl Boys will see through her in time part of why she is the way she is is because she knows she can do it She knows it gets a reaction out of you girls you girls give her the power Take away her power by letting her be the tramp and don't give her the benefit of seeing you upset just get on with your own life and ignore her she will hang her own self and the boys will see it forthemselves
2007-02-10 16:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by lynx 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can you live with your conscience if you were to do such a thing and would you like that to be done to you? Just the fact that you want to hurt her isn't that also being mean as well? Perhaps it could back fire on you and people will think you are the mean one?
Think about it before you make a decision because what ever decision you make you will have to live with and if you can live with yourself by thinking you need to teach someone a lesson.
You have to live with the consquences of your own choice and so you must make that decison. Revenge isn’t sweet even though people may say it is because you can also end up hurting yourself as well.
I remember a girl in my youth that was the type of girl who had 5 boyfriends in a row. She was hurting inside and the reason why she was like that was because she was acting out a cry for help.
She wasn't mean but she was out for herself and would often dump her problems on to me. I considered her more of an acquaintance then a really good friend and only once I stuck my neck out for her. After that I had to put my foot down because I didn't always want to go along with her.
She would often say to me don't ever let a guy come between us as friends. That didn't stop her and I knew what she was up to so I was very cautious with her. I certainly didn't confide in her because she wasn't someone that I could turn to in any case. I didn't trust her enough to make her a confident.
I had met many girls that behaved like this mainly because they weren't happy at home. What's to say that this girl isn't going through some problems her self if she acts out this way? I had very few friends who didn't come from troubled homes. It was nice to see that difference because it made me realize possibly why some girls behaved this way.
She is probably being mean to other girls because she in fact is the one who has the problem. Maybe she is jealous of them and she seeks attention in the wrong way? I found that my friend was like that with me because most guys liked me because I listened to my mother's advice. She said to me be yourself and the boys should like you for who you are. Very true.
I have given you some advice mainly because I do know what it's like to be a teen because I was teenager once and it wasn't always easy but I got through those rough years. I just hope that you will think this through before you do something rash. Take care.
2007-02-10 16:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...
well I have serious problems w/ bullys so im gonna try and help....
DONT! there is a rumor going on about me and just hearing it everyday really hurts me! I know I've thought of revenge and it's really NOT so sweet. You should ignore it however if she does anything else spread the truth not a myth.
I know it's probably not want u want 2 here but believe me rumors are not worth it
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2007-02-10 16:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle Marie<3 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, that's an awful idea. Don't try to ruin anyone's life or YOU will be a mean girl! Do you want to be like that girl? If not, leave her alone and mind your own business. Just be nice to everyone for real, unlike she does.
2007-02-10 17:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this girl sounds like a jerk and im sure she is. dont start a rumor about her because that just makes you like her. try to rise above it. im sure that's not the greatest advice. i know that if i were you and she was a jerk around me or she was all fake i would give her a taste of her own medicine but dont start a rumor about her. she will get her comupance soon. i dont think i spelled that right.
2007-02-10 16:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by abfab 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yo, have you seen the movie Mean Girls? Sounds like this is just like it. I don't think you should destroy her. If you're a christian, than try being nice to her. If she's still a jerk then, i suggest you just ignore her.
2007-02-10 16:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by alexmanplaysguitar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think a rumor would destroy her, if anything it would make her even more mean. She obviously has no friends, so just pity her and focus on yourself, she is a bit ch!!
2007-02-10 16:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by I do what I want.. 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well now, why not just let life take it's course, and let her eventually be exposed for the creep she is, rather than descend to her level and become mean too?
2007-02-10 16:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋