How should I go about find out our total savings in our 18Th's. year of marriage?

Question

I trusted her, even when she got her own safety box, then she removed some money from the joint account, then she stoped helping with the household bills, and now she stop putting her money in the joint account. She always had a good excuse each time and I never question her trustworthyness. I love her, I payed all the bills, wine and dine her and saved some money for our retirement. I taught she was saving up for our retirement too but now I am thinking she may have 'other' motives. She doesn't want to talk about her savings and I don't see any statement in the mail for her nor any thing when me file our income tax. What should I do?

Answer 1

Better sleep with a bat next to you... I sense a sensational murder coming up - yours. You must have done something to make her hate your guts right now. She's about to either show you she's an axe murderer, or she's about to leave you for someone else.