Shes only 16 and the father of the baby left her so its really just herself, how should i help her.
2007-02-10 08:15:29 · 10 answers · asked by samantha 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
OHHH no! Please don't throw your pragent freind! When you do that she might bounce off of something and knock you over. Real freinds don't throw each other or their babies.
The moral of this is that Freinds don't let Freinds get pregnant
2007-02-10 09:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by hollilynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does her mother know?
If not she should tell her!
Talk to about keeping the baby and how hard it will be
It could be done, it will be very hard
If she has doubts, or not sure she wants the baby, have her look into adoption. I see adoption as an act of love. A loving mother giving her child to a loving couple who want and can not have one of her own. IF she look into adoption, she does can change her mind. Tell her that she can pick out the parents of the child in some adoptions. That's not a scary
Good luck
2007-02-10 17:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your.....pragent freind. No, do not throw it. Babies can be seriously injured if they are thrown (or throwed, if you prefer).
Support her as best you can. Look for community organizations that provide support for young pragent girls. Just be a freind.
2007-02-10 16:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she should DEFINATELY tell her parents, it's not quite as bad as people think it is, they might not be happy with her at first, but they are the best help that your friend can get.
and who cares about the father of the baby, try to make her feel like she has a full support team behind her (that includes you and anyone else she knows....) it might sound crazy, but the only thing that you can do is to try to get her to tell her parents and just be there to listen to what she says...trust me (i'd know -.^)
2007-02-11 07:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by lostkitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she shouldn't throw it, but go to her parents and ask for help. Best thing to do for her may be to give the baby up for adoption.
2007-02-10 17:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must get the support of an adult at once. Whether it be your mom, her mom, a guidance counselor, or someone else. She needs to see the OBGYN immediately, and she may need to retain the services of a lawyer to get child support from the father.
2007-02-10 16:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Lucky♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, she should tell her parents. Then, if it were me, I would have an important decision to make. Should I keep this child or should I put the baby up for adoption, or consider abortion.
2007-02-10 16:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by di12381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's a pragent? If a pregent is really heavy, then you might have to help her throw it. Depends on how far it needs to go.
2007-02-10 16:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way you need to be there for her. Whether her parents support her or not, just do the only thing you can and support her emotionally.
2007-02-10 16:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by aelover77t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first she needs to tell her parents
2 you just have to be there for her
2007-02-10 16:18:53 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋