consider this to be "cheating" or infidelity even though there was no physical contact....??
2007-02-10 08:04:43 · 13 answers · asked by marincaligirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Definitely cheating!!
2007-02-10 08:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about a married man answering? I don't care if it's for the last year or the last ten minutes. It's cheating. I'd expect my wife to put her foot down and clobber me if she caught me doing that. I would hope that any married woman would see this as cheating and do what she had to do to defend her marriage. And if a husband can't see that, he's not mature enough to be a husband yet.
Throw that computer out the window, cancel his internet provider, delete his Yahoo! account and get both of you into marital counseling ASAP!
2007-02-10 08:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by penhead72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating!!! Even if it was only one time it would be cheating but for a year with the same person honey he is in a relationship with these people. Any sexual contact made with another person whether physical or mental is cheating. His mind and body should be for you when it comes to sex.
2007-02-10 10:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Trisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm divorced but yeah...I do think that's cheating because of the intent. Talking sex with a woman and getting off is cheating even without physical contact
2007-02-10 08:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by tuxgal3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i sure do. THis is still cheating and unfaithfulness to the marriage even though it is in the mind they still masturbate and wish with their heart and mind that they were with that person and someday it will end up in physical contact over time trust me because it will end up not being good enough and fullfilling enough for them and they will want the real thing. They are cheating on you in their heart and minds so yes it is the same thing.
2007-02-10 08:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is wacko if he's getting his jollies on the phone.
Why don't you try it in front of him or bring home a playgirl magazine an see if he likes it. Hell tell him you and the girls are going to a male strip joint but not to worry because there's no physical contact.
He should get the point real fast if he cares.
Think of the money he's spending on cyber-s*x that he could be spending on a romantic evening with you
If it's not considered cheating it certainly is considered abusive and inappropriate.
2007-02-10 08:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-03 02:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is considered cheating to me.I do not approve of things like that and I do not do those things myself.If my husband were doing that to me I would probably leave him.It doesn't matter if there is no physical contact-cheating is still cheating.
2007-02-10 08:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, to me that would be a betrayal of trust and just as bad a lieing or cheating.
2007-02-10 08:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first i think i would ask myself why he has the time to do such things and why i wasnt spending more time with him... the reason i say that is because i had an online affair and the only reason i did it was because i was lonley and sad and i liked what he had to say to me even if i knew it wasnt real or true it still felt good to have someone pay attention to me for a change so i would ask him to his face whats up and y he is talking to this person and find out if he has even met them ect... im not saying its rite or wrong i am saying that something is wrong or missing in your marriage
2007-02-10 08:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by momoftwobestkids 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋