I dress in all black lacy kind of unusual clothes and im getting picked on for it. i dont want to change how i look and im trying to be strong and be myself but its hard if your nick named goth girl! HELP!
2007-02-10 08:02:51 · 16 answers · asked by emsi_n_kiki 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I don't see the problem. There is nothing wrong with being a "goth girl"! :-p Perhaps you live in some hick *** close minded small town where everybody wears abercrombie & fitch and Tommy Hilfiger? And they think dressing goth is "evil"? Pfft. Honestly, who gives a crap about them? I used to dress "weird" in high school too and people would sometimes make their little comments. I used to find it quite amusing myself and it only made me want to be MORE of a non-conformist. Don't worry about it. All it means is that you are more deep of a person than they are because you dare to be different and not be just another cookie cutter carbon copy like everyone else seems to feel they need to be.
2007-02-10 08:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever took one look at some one and had a weird thought or without even thinking you gave a raised eyebrow look? And after doing this you found them doing something nice and it threw you off? Well I say that is the answer. You like black and it is just a color which is eye appeal. Try to just appeal to people's hearts and don't worry about the silly looks. You will be surprised at how more shocked people are when they see this "goth girl" who has such a huge heart. Kill them with kindness! It works believe me. And for those meanies who don't know when to quit, continue to hold your head high. They are trying to get a rise out of you, don't give them the satisfaction. Have a great day honey. KnowGod,KnowLove. Daisy
2007-02-10 08:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by daisypagel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand the situation. And how you feel.
I want to tell you that being yourself is the first thing and best thing you could do. you will be stronger and more confident. If you want you can make your style look more modern, use the clothes you like togheter with some accessories that make your style more in fashion, maybe a waist belt or a long necklace in silver or gold. mix and try to put something tohgether to an outfit.
Good Luck
2007-02-10 08:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Beauty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
inform your school inform your parents inform your friends inform everyone you know of this is not acceptable what if they do more than honk at you? try not to be alone these men might be harmless but then again maybe not your safety is important whether you dress is inappropopraite or not they have no right to do that to you its harrassment and you are to young to be getting unwanted attention from these guys get there registration numbers next time they pass you and inform a teacher of what to do and tell your parents also
2016-05-25 03:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is YOUR style, not anyone else's. Don't be embarrased, and don't change your look if you like it. Usually people who dress differently make a statement because their confidence in themselves shows. Embrace your unique style and try to be more confident in yourself. This will show your bullies that you don't care what they think about you, and they might back off a bit. If not, don't answer to rude nick names and ignore them. They are just trying to get a reaction out of you, so DON'T GIVE THEM ONE!
2007-02-10 08:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do u really like ur style? U sound like u do. Wen those ppl make fun of u, tell them that ur not gonna change ur style 4 them cause thier not important. Also tell them that that they r so pathetic that they have to pick on some1 else 4 excitement. Hope this helps!
2007-02-10 11:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, in our society, the second you don't fit into the 'normal' crowd, there is something to pick on...so either you follow the norm group or accept being different and have people pick on you!
Try to look at the advantages and make it look positive for yourself! I used to be called 'beanstalk' (almost 6' and skinny), and I used to hate being so tall; however, at one point, I had discovered tight jeans and boys staring at me, making compliments, and so on....you'll be good. Being different is fine.
2007-02-10 08:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, don't you just love the narrow minds of our society! These people clearing do not understand anything that goes beyond the square they live in.... Unfortunately being unique does have a price, but nobody said you had to listen to them, its hard, but ignore them. I grew up being the "odd freaky girl" at school, people do tire of it after a while. If these people aren't your friends then what does their opinion matter anyway.... I learnt laughing at them made me stronger.. I admire anyone who wants to stand far from the crowd!
Stand tall and be proud!!!
2007-02-10 08:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by psycho_faerie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dress outside the 'norm" people are going to look at you, and pink on you. You just need to get thick skin. I am in the same boat as you and i just learned to deal with it
2007-02-10 08:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by balletguy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell everyone to f-off.
dont let them see it gets to you. just be sarcastic about it.. just say "so what! your a prep girl" or so "and your point is.."
or tell them atleast i'm not like every other girl here, i have my own style and tell them you have no problem with the way you dress so why should they... be strong girl, i have faith in you!!!!
2007-02-10 08:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋