Anyone have the secret or the knowledge so that we can share it with other's who may get lonely on Valentine's Day or any other day?
2007-02-10 07:38:01 · 19 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Not to put so much emphasis on such holiday events. Also, find
a hobby that you can grow to love to do when you have time on
your hands. And, you can find ways to help others in need.
When you're helping others, you have little time to feel
depressed. It's actually healing and encouraging. -L
2007-02-17 12:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Everyone of us experience loneliness sometime, no one experiences NEVER feeling lonely. It is no secret, If you like yourself and enjoy your own company such that you don't have to have others with you all the time and you are your own best friend you won't be feeling lonely. As for Valentine's Day, it is just another day and if you do not have a significant other believe in the plan for your life because there is a reason you don't and it's not your fault. Basically, enjoy who you are as you are and accept where you are. Remember, you are really never alone.
2007-02-10 17:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you lonely?
If you are happy there is nothing to make you feel lonely even you have nobody around on Valentine's day. Happiness doesn't mean to have a boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife with you, there is more than a mate. Is beyond of a relationship is about the kind of goals you have in life.
2007-02-15 01:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by marisa e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has a lot to do with one's self confidence. I used to sit around and feel sorry for myself on V day and lots of other days. I've worked on my self confidence over the last 6 months and I dont sit around like that anymore. It is a waste of my time to worry about the past or to be fearful of the future. There are so many other positive things I can think about instead of why I am alone on V day. I can think about the good things in my life, my family, my pets, my favorite hobby, I can read a good book, watch a movie or my favorite sitcom. If I dont waste my time thinking about being lonely, it wont be a problem.
I've learned to accept who I really am and stop trying to be somebody else to fit in with the rest of the world. I've learned to be happy by myself, even on V day. I dont need other people or physical things to make me happy, it comes from within.
There is a wealth of free information on the internet and an endless supply of books out there that address these issues. I encourage you to look into it and not waste any more of your valuable time on this. It will take some work to get out of the old ways of thinking but once you get there, it will be worth its weight in gold. Good luck!
2007-02-10 15:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by bustmethods 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find connections with other people but if that does not work for you what helped me more than anything ever has was I had a cat I loved her with all my heart and now that I no longer have a pet I am experiencing true lonlienss since when I had her she would always curl up beside me and purr away. I moved to a diffrent state I do not have friends but I can not have a pet but will get one in the future
2007-02-18 15:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody knows that secret because we are not supposed to be never lonely. We have to be lonely at times so that we can appreciate other emotions such as happiness. It provides balance to the emotional state of being.
2007-02-10 16:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by woman in the well 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am satisfied with my circle of friends, I keep busy. My computer brings contact with others to me. I don't need to have a man in my life to be complete. If I meet someone I meet some one. I don't dwell on the fact that I am divorced and not a part of a couple.For me the answer is Church, Community,Friends,Family and my Computer. I enjoy my own company, I like the T.V. programs I choose to watch, I like the books I chose to read, andI have my sweet cat Mia. She is my buddy.
2007-02-18 12:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things to keep your mind off of it like reading a book, exercising, watching television, spend time with your family, play games on the pc. To forget about something do other things to keep your mind other places. Dwelling will just make you more depressed and lonely.
2007-02-10 15:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just can't help feeling lonely. You could be in a room full of people and feel lonely.
2007-02-18 08:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by SANDI P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes- One name for God is Madhana Mohana- (The Attractor of Cupid)Cupid is a angel of Love and he shoots piercing arrows of Lust into the conditioned souls hearts to bind them to the material world. God is the only one who can remove this bondage of lust and transform it into pure eternal love. God is the original person and His original name and form is Krishna who is Love Personified. Is is our original Friend or Lover or child. Depending on or constitutional relationship with Him. He also has a feminine Counterpart named Radha or Hare. She is also Love and compassion personified. We can not have any quality unless God has it . Why? because we are part and parcel of Him. We have all the qualities of God just not in the same quantity. He is seated in core of every living entities heart. One can access Him immediately by chanting his names. The most recommended names (recommended by Him) is the Chanting of the Hare Krishna Maha Mantra for details go to harekrishnatemple.c
Read the Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada- tells how to Love and never be alone.
2007-02-10 15:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋