Why is it that men will have the woman they love with all there heart and still cheat dont youll feel any guilt?????????
2007-02-10 07:34:59 · 16 answers · asked by hmm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is for the men that ARE WITH THE WOMAN THEY LOVE WITH ALL THERE HEART AND STILL CHEAT!!! this is not a personal ??
2007-02-10 07:55:28 · update #1
Men can see sex as a totally unemotional thing more easily than most women can. A man can cheat without feeling like he's betrayed anyone with his heart. He wanted to have sex with someone else but he still loves his partner. He didn't give his love to anyone else so he feels no guilt.
2007-02-10 07:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way you've posed the question, it's pretty obvious that you've already half-answered your question. You want men to feel guilty for cheating, and you want the answer to the guilt question to be in the negative. Problem is, you won't like my answer.
I think the more appropriate question is: "Why will a man cheat even after having found a woman he loves?"
And I think the answer to that is simple, one of two reasons, he either doesn't like her as much as she thinks he does, or he loves her but feels a sense of discomfort brought on by anything --- from a prolonged bad mood to personal insecurities that have carried through to the relationship. In other words, he is a human being, we all go through this, male or female.
So yes there are cheaters, yes some don't feel much remorse... there's not much you can do about that. I think you should make it easier for all of us on here, and ask the real question you want to pose, the one that deals with your situation.
2007-02-10 15:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So in other words you think all men are cheaters, there are a lot of good men out there, in 14 years of marriage i never so much as glanced at another woman, now thats real love, theres are certain % of men that are cheaters, with gives all the good ones a bad name, So give us a chance, ive been divorced almost 1yaer and half, i play the field a little bit, but a cheat i am not.
2007-02-10 15:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly can't answer your question because I'm not all men (as your question more or less indicates.)
Might I urge you to stop blaming or treating ALL men the same way... Because MOST men aren't cheaters, nor would most men not have any guilt over it.
The fact is, both men and women are prone to cheating - but not all of them do.
2007-02-10 15:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheat because I dont love her with all my heart.
I am not ready to break her heart because I dont feel the same way she does.
I like her and care about her but I dont know how to deal with all the tears that leaving her will bring.
I tell her I love her and all that she asks me to say to keep the peace but I know that she is NOT the one for me. If I cheat and happen to find 'the one' I will move so I dont have to face her.
do you ask your man 'tell me you love with all your heart?' if you do and he says yes, this NOT the same as him really feeling this way!
For the person getting cheated on
Cheating is the least of your problems.....
It takes alot of work to NOT get caught
I have lied to her so many times about so many things so that I could be out of the house to look for the RIGHT one.
I like having someone there to have sex with me when I dont feel like going to chase it but I am looking for better
and I dont want to settle for this
so I say what I need to
we have a lease so i hope to find the new ms. right before the end of the lease
2007-02-10 15:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by xxxxxxx b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most guys do not have the woman that they love with all there heart that would be your dream person that does not happen very often and things change, people change both people tend to change so regardless of who you marry. And everyone including women cheat for different reasons.
2007-02-10 15:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with other comments. Don't blame it all on men. Look at the other blogs here. Many are about cheating wives. Takes 2 to tango
Ever heard the question: Why do (male) dogs lick themselves? Because they can.
2007-02-10 18:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they believe no matter how much they love someone they wont get the same love ,, and they dont feel guilty is because they not married or atleast thats what they think
the woman i love at home and she is my sweetheart , and you "person they cheating with " just for my pleasure
2007-02-10 15:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Spicatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look women cheat too. My chick cheated on me with my friend she wasn't guilty so dont point fingers at my sex. For the record i bleive men do it to get away from the constant complaining from their spouse and the inability to keep her happy.
2007-02-10 15:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by stockkiddan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had that woman you described.Loved her with all my heart,would do anything for her,bent over backwards for her.Never cheated on her and never had a reason to.Guess what.She cheated on me Ain't that a kick in the head.
2007-02-10 15:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋