I had to ask this as I'm planning my trip as I read it's mighty nice there and I plan to live there for at least 3 months because I want to see everything in Boston, but everyone here in the UK keeps telling me there is a lot of aggro in Boston and most of the people there have attitude problems and aren't friendly at all. But of course there are one or two peeps who have told me that they're telling me a load of bullocks. But I just don't know who to believe. I'm so confused and as I'm quite a sensitive person, I totally hate confrontations and fights. Knowing me, If I find all this is true...I might even just abandon the thought of even going there.
2007-02-10 07:31:01 · 13 answers · asked by Curious Girl 1 in Travel ➔ United States ➔ Boston
Boston is a very nice city despite what people tell you. There are some areas that are dangerous, but for the most part it's pretty safe.
Most Bostonians are sociable and enjoy going out and spending time with others. The city's many bars, dance clubs, music halls, etc. are proof of this. However, we don't strike up conversations with strangers we see on the subway, the street, the store, or other public places. If you were to walk onto a crowded subway car in Boston and say to everyone, "Hey guys, what's up? My name is _____, what's yours?" people will think you are a weirdo. Public transportation is not the place for meeting people.
That's not because we are rude or anti-social. That's just the way we do things in Boston.
People in Boston also tend to believe that the details of your sex life are personal and should be kept private. If you start to tell us too many bedroom details, we will be turned off. It's not that we don't like sex, we just believe that it's no one's business except for you and your partner.
Also, don't push Bostonians to tell too much about their personal lives (not just sex, but in general). It takes us a while to open up to new people, and if you try to speed up this process by asking too many personal questions, you will be percieved as nosy. When we tell you details of our personal life, it is because we trust you enough to share them with you. We feel the same way about our personal space and our bodies, so keep touching to a minimum.
I'm a pretty senstive person, and I don't like fights either, but I do just fine living in Boston. Just as long as you don't step off the plane and expect to immediately become best friends with everyone you meet, you should do fine, too.
2007-02-13 09:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bostonians are, overall, very nice people. Of course there are some real jerks, but that's the case anywhere. If you're a Red Sox fan you'll do great, and if not, well pretend to be one. The city is really a great city. The T (as the subway is called) is really very easy to use. Be sure to spend some time at Copley Square and the Boston Public Library. Also, try and catch a concert at Boston Symphony Hall. You will be surprised at how many nice people you will meet. Just try and stay out of Southy (South Boston) as a tourist.
2007-02-14 02:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by huguenot85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are nice, but there are some exceptions. However, Boston is one of the less frieldly cities in America. If you keep to yourself for the most part, no one will bother you. I've never lived there, but I've lived in the state for years, and it is overall a nice place. Just a little hot and humid in the summer and cold in the winter.
Boston does offer the conviences of a big city without the size of one. That is one thing I love about it. The other great thing is that people do have pride about being there.
2007-02-11 07:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Dereky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well Heidi, I came to NZ from Britain in 1968 because I couldn't get into uni there. All the baby boomers like me made admission very competitive. Apart from a few years travelling around, I've lived here ever since. I've studied at 4 universities here. Out of all the countries I've visited, I'd settle for Iceland, Canada or New Zealand.
2016-05-25 03:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been living in Boston for 3 years. It is quite cold at the moment but in general, it is a good place.
As far as the people, I think it's just the same as any place. Some nice, some not so nice. If you've never been, I think it's worth visiting. Big city perks (things to do etc.) without being unmanageable in size.
2007-02-10 14:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by beantown 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Steer clear of driving in Boston. I have found Boston area drivers to be extremely rude...but that's the case with many cities. There are many great things to see in Boston and many of the people seem to be relatively friendly. I recommend if you are here in late July to go whale watching too. It is awesome if you go when the whale are feeding regularly. You can go in a variety of places but in the Harbor near the aquarium downtown is a good place to go. You can take a trolley and see many of the sights then visit the one's you consider best after the ride.
2007-02-12 09:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are jerks in any city. Most people are nice and willing to lend some help. I go into Boston all the time and I have a great time. You should come to our city and see what its like.
2007-02-10 15:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff M 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hogwash! People can be jerks in any city. It all depends on your attitude. I absolutely love going to Boston and have never had a problem. As long as you're not wearing a New York Yankee's shirt hat or any other paraphernalia you will be just fine. It's a great place to go. Highly recommend it.
2007-02-10 07:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Galactose 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Boston has similarities with other big US east coast cities like New York City and Philadelphia. Parts of it is very industrial-looking and kind of ugly. Other parts are picturesque. It's got historic buildings and skyscrapers, taxis, expensive restaurants, museums, water view, subway, and fast talking people. In these cities, people are rushed and may appear curt, but it's not aggression. It's being efficient. It's like some people say Parisians are rude, but I never felt that at all.
2007-02-10 09:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by averagebear 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Boston is awesome. the people there are so nice, i live a few minutes from the city.and love going into boston. you always meet new people there that are just so welcoming, especially at red sox games,except the yankees fans there. but i think that boston is one of the nicest cities in the us
2007-02-12 11:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by damn straight shortie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋