i dont know what to do me and my boyfiend broke up a month ago and i just founld out im having has baby help?

Answer 1

First i suggest you tell your ex about the baby. He may be very supportive he may not but it is better to know if he wants to be involved in this. Second find some people to help you through IF you want to have this baby. Close family and friends help loads because being a single mum isnt easy. And finally good luck, hope you decide to go through with it :)

Answer 2

Hey cat
you need to think long and hard about this. which i think you know already! The answer lies within yourself and your feelings for the baby's father. If he doesnt know you need to tell him and you need to see if there is anything that you both can talk about to help resolve the problem that has happened. The other question you need to ask yourself is.. Is there any chance of us getting back together? This is a problem you need to sort out yourself between you and your ex and not really take any advice from people you dont know. Talk to a close friend or your parents. But the best is only for you to know.
Good Luck I wish you all the best i hope in some way this has helped and not confused the situation xx

Answer 3

Its really up to you but I would think seriously about keeping your baby.

I have just had my first child - my little boy was born 10 weeks ago, and he has changed my life so much, he has made me so happy and fulfilled and my life is now so full of love and excitement for the future.

I am not anti-abortion and if a woman had been raped or something I would support her decision if that was what she wanted to do.

Are you and your boyfriend still friends or on speaking terms? You can still bring a baby up between you - just because you are not a couple doesn't mean you can't both be part of your child's life.

Having a baby without a partner to support you is going to be hard but there is lots of support out there, and I can honestly say that the rewards of motherhood are wonderful. My little man started smiling a few weeks ago and I have to say that everytime he smiles at me it brings tears to my eyes. I never thought I could be so happy. Its definitely worth it.

There is help for single mums and you will meet someone else one day who could be a father to your little one if your ex doesn't want to get involved.

Answer 4

nobody can realy answer this 4 u. U have to think about what is best 4 u. But if u decide to keep the baby, u need to tell the father. But remember why u both split up and if u dont resolve that issue then its not worth getting back together for the child. But loads of women go it alone and cope just fine
goog luck

Answer 5

first of all make your own mind up about this situation DO YOU WANT TO KEEP THIS BABY remember if you keep this baby your life and his will always be complicated, it will be hard moving on with you're own lives and keeping will not bring him back if he doesn't want it and would you take him back just cause you're pregnant cause it would never work out. if you keep this baby you will be a single parent and its not the easiest thing to be its hard enough bringing a baby up when both parents are there. Think long and hard about this, the decision lies with you if you decided to keep you will need to let him know if you decide to terminate then i wouldn't say a thing if you do keep it make sure its for the right reasons and will be fair to the baby that you will bring in to this world

Answer 6

You should tell him and give him the chance to do the right thing, there maybe a chance for you two to work it out. At the end of the day it will be your your decision, your body. Hope your well and things work out for you I've been there, i had my son 4 years ago and he hasn't seen his real father since then. But i have met a wonderful man who has brought him up as his own, and I'm now pregnant with my second child. Hope you get your happy ending xx

Answer 7

You need to inform him first as who knows you could end up back together have a family and be happy. If he's not interested then you really need to think of your options and do what you think is best. I was a single mother and there is no shame in it and i now have a new partner so having a child doesn't put every bloke off. Don't do anything rash

Answer 8

ok if you decide you want to keep this baby things will work out so dont worry even though you and your boyfriend are no longer together doesnt been he cant be part of the babys life im sure you can work out something between you first you do is go to the doctor and then tell your parents im sure they will support you there are plenty of web sites you can go on to for help take care look after yourself

Answer 9

go 2 the citizens advice place n ask exactly what benefits u r entitled 2. sounds careless, but u gotta fink abt u n baby now.

trust me hunny i kno how u feel. i'm 6 months pregnant and me n the father broke up apparently he has 2 go 'find' himself agn. anyway men r idiots n that is a matter of life we cannot change. u gotta think abt u now. do u want this baby? if not r u going to hav an abortion or carry it full term n get it adopted? i kno its hard. but women r strong...dats y we're the ones who give birth, men wuld die from the pain..lol.

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Answer 10

Make sure you go to the doctor and confirm that you are pregnant. Then after you have done that. You need to tell him and let him know how you feel about it. It you are going to keep it or going to put it up for adoption, hopefully abortion is not an option for you. If you are going to keep it.. make sure that you have all the support you need, including from him. This is something you will need to talk about in a civil manner. Good luck.