Ladies, can you tell me if you've ever had an orgasm from vaginal sex alone? I never have, and I know some people just can't, but I was hoping I could get some info on the best way for it to happen. Also, is it normal for it to hurt everytime? I know my husband is "well endowed" but I've always heard that women are made to fit almost anyone. I've tried lube and lots of foreplay, but it always hurts. Even for a few days afterwards. Anyone have any ideas?
2007-02-10 06:42:31 · 4 answers · asked by meh 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The only times I ever have an orgasm is during oral sex, never just intercourse. I don't know why, just happens.
And for the painful part. It depends on the man. He has to arouse me and take his time. It wont hurt if he does that but if he rushes into it and doesn't put any affection and time into what he's doing then the answer for me is , Yes it will hurt most of the time.
2007-02-10 07:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by trish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luckily I orgasm 95% of the time just from intercourse alone with no extra help. The best position is missionary. My husband is also well endowed and it hurts almost every time too. Use a high end lube. Ky would cause me more pain and burn for some reason. Try ID Glide it works great and helped a lot with the pain.
2007-02-10 16:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try various positions until you find one that works for you.
2007-02-10 15:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take it easy. You should also get on top to give you more control. You will get used to it.
2007-02-10 15:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋