2007-02-10 06:18:09 · 14 answers · asked by Who 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you have to tell her,,and you have to be honest, everyone deserves an explanation. You would want one. Just tell her that your not really looking for a relationship right now!
2007-02-10 06:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but you really do need to just tell her. In high school, I really liked a certain guy, and he just wanted to be friends, but he would never tell me so I was totally led on. If he would've just told me I could've moved on, and I wouldn't have really even cared! Just being honest is the best solution. She'll get over it.
2007-02-10 14:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by kc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't you have to tell her that you are flattered that she like you but that you do not feel the same and would just like to remain friends. She will understand and if she doesn't then she wasn't meant to be a friend. Take care Heather
2007-02-10 14:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is impossible.....no one is a mindreader, and if you only want to be friends, then fess up and tell her. Otherwise, she will feel like she's been "played" or used, and that would prevent you from ever having a friendship.
2007-02-10 14:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kbear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are ways like ignoring her, flirting with others in front of her, etc, but the best was to get any point across is to talk it out
2007-02-10 14:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ann J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hang out with her or give her any ideas a girl could run with to make her think she is a possible gf.
2007-02-10 14:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a note/email so she can read it slowly and digest it.
Be honest. Tell her you aren't attracted to her in that way.
Be firm and direct.
2007-02-10 14:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Esperenza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if she wants to go on a double date..lol.... maybe she only wants to be friends too... just talk about other girls and then she will talk about other guys... thats what friends do right...
2007-02-10 14:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jist say i feel liek were mor eof friends than anythign if you dont say it she wont get what your getting to or mean she can move on it wont be the end of the world for her
2007-02-10 14:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by J-Dep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got two words for ya TELL HER STRAIGHT(ok that is 3 but you get the point) Save her and yourself all the DRAMA
2007-02-10 14:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋