of all the attention she started getting? I don't like to think of myself as a jealous person, and she thanks me all the time for helping her lose weight. But I just feel weird because I guess when we went out together the attention was always on me (even though I never noticed it before), and now it is on her and so it just feels weird. Plus I feel bad for even feeling like this!!! I have other pretty friends and I know I'm not jealous of them!!! What do you think is wrong with me????
2007-02-10 06:01:48 · 2 answers · asked by cuteness 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You had her "pegged" as the plain one, or at least unattractive.
Now she has changed, and longer fits in the category you gave her. There will be a period of adjustment, while you mentally move her into the "pretty" category with the rest of your friends.
It's not quite prejudice. It's more like "Conditioned response" with Pavlov's dog that expects food when it hears a bell. The response of others to her presence no longer meets your conditioned expectations, ie. they no longer ignore her.
2007-02-10 11:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of that 114 is a ideal weight... I certainly have a similar subject as you... i often devour a lot of junk nutrition yet i desperate to diminish back and that i replace into one hundred ten and already on the incredibly skinny area and that i misplaced 10 kilos basically reason i exercising too plenty and now im kinda self unsleeping via fact I have no boobs and that i'd desire to probable positioned on a pair kilos so if i've got been you i'd stay a similar
2016-11-03 02:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋