I went out one night with my ex-fiance and his new girlfriend and some other friends. My fiance called me to tell me he was coming by my house. I told him i was on my way but something happened and i was late. He was angry he says and high. My best freind whom i live with decided to entertain him. One thing lead to another and they start dancing and he starts to tell her how he wanted to date her before me but now he with me he loves me but they should just have sex 1 time noone will ever no and he starts feeling on her. She is usually one the get crazy and violant when someone does that but this time she was so called in shock. She didnt call me on my mobile or even tell me till the day before we were getting married. He admitted it and said he like her but he loved me and he made a mistake. I know her and she likes the attenetion i blame both of them equally and feel its more then they are admitting. What should i do? I love him and this is the second time with her this has happened.
2007-02-10 05:50:13 · 3 answers · asked by Akasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How can you still love him after this? He will do it your whole life! Once a cheater, Always a cheater! You have to make a choice. Are you worth more then Him? If you love yourself the way you deserve, then the answer should be Yes. If not, then not. Decide NOW, because if you stay with him, this is but a taste of the Pain to come to you in the future from him.
Back in the summer , I married a lady in England ( I live in canada). Anyhow, even though she never admited it, and still won t, it doesn t take a genious to figure out if someone is having sex behind a persons back. After being around her for a few months, it was too obvious. So I left her. And have not , nor will not go back to her. And also, only a couple months after I left, she returned the ring to me. Which of course, sadly prooved to me that she did Not love me. If she wasn t having sex with others, she would have loved me more im sure. But why come after me, when she has others right.
Anyhow, the pain still hurts, But if I had stayed with her, I know I would have died early.
I m 25 and She was 37. Maybe our ages had somthing to do with it. I know that she was eyeing down her daughter s boyfriend, and I don t doubt they did have sex.
God it hurts to think about. But anyhow, i love myself enough to know I deserve better. True Love. But if we do not have the courage to leave , then we never will find our true love.
2007-02-10 06:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 15:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point in maintaining such a relationship. You should learn to let him go and move on with your life. If he can cheat you once, I believe he can cheat you 2nd time and more. So why get yourself hurt again. forget the relationship and get back to your feet and move on with your life.
2007-02-10 18:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋